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That Thing, Whatever It's Called Some people say they just want someone to love and to be loved by them in return. Apparently, that is their ultimate goal in life. God knows how many songs have been written about that exact subject. Screw that shit. I don’t want only that. If you want someone to just love you then get a puppy. I want so much more than that. You don’t just want love. You can love someone but not have a connection, no real deep intimacy. For some reason, you just don’t click on some spiritual, cosmic, higher plane, whatever you want to call it. If that’s not there you’re missing a big part. That love you feel is never going to be as fulfilling as it could be. But then you can have this amazing connection with a person where you are both on the same wavelength. Your minds are aligned. You almost know what the other person is thinking or feeling at any given moment. But there’s no sexual chemistry. There’s no desire. No lust. That connection will never be what it potentially could be. And we all know about those times when the sex and the passion are off the charts. You can’t imagine it possibly be any better. You’re convinced that people should be filming you as you always produce some high-quality sex that the world needs to be aware of. But during those times when there’s no sex happening, there’s no tenderness. There’s no affection. There’s no real desire to make the other person truly happy other than physically. There’s no love. So there you have it. You can love someone but not be sexually compatible. You can be hot for each other all the time but you just don’t care about each other in that special way. You can find a soul mate type of connection but you don’t love them in a way you know your heart is capable of. So close and yet so damn far. This is turning into quite a positive piece of writing, isn’t it? I blame the bottle of wine that was inhaled late one night when this was written… So what do we want? Clearly, most of the world hasn’t really figured it out or there wouldn’t be so many who believe that their true other half is still out there somewhere but is not the person laying next to them in bed. Who simply want more. I have no idea what that’s called but it’s more than just passion and desire. Way more than just an intimate connection. And most definitely more than just love. But you’ll know when you’ve found it because you count the minutes until you’ll see him again when you’re apart. You live for those times when you make her laugh until tears roll down her face. A gentle touch of skin in the middle of the night makes your heart almost burst with joy. And you can’t wait to rip each other’s clothes off and find out how much more pleasure you can possibly give each other than the last time when you rocked the building’s foundations. Sounds like some kind of fantasy, I know, but sometimes fantasies do come true. If yours hasn’t yet, keep looking. That thing, whatever you want to call it, is out there somewhere… Dirty Romantic  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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Men need to hunt, and you make the hunting scenery extremely pleasant "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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That´s life as itself, and nothing is endless, just change of status
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Men need to hunt, and you make the hunting scenery extremely pleasant
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ali There is much food for thought in this..... A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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A feeling of purpose to live for. You live for the feeling to keep going each day riding out the good, bad, and ugly. Both sides have to hunt for the other. Without purpose there be no connection; if no connection there is no relationship; no relationship then there is nothing. Thing called HOPE to give meaning. That is why it is hard to find the right person. Days, weeks, months, or even years to find what you want. Take me, I be looking for a slave. It been a few years and no luck. Some good matches but no luck. Also why I find partners to past time while I Hope in finding that person.
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9/24/2019 3:11 pm |
Very nice, young lady, someone said today the opposite of courage is not cowardice today, it is conformity... It is nice to see another lady who wants it all, not settling!
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9/24/2019 3:03 pm |
very thoughtful
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9/24/2019 2:01 pm |
And you can never discount the Butterflies....I yearn for those
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That thing can be good an dbad...I think 
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Love this. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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