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A Guide To Spankings And Impact Play Impact play is a common kink that’s practiced in D/s dynamics and S&M. It can be a form of punishment, teasing, play, and therapy. Spanking is the most well-known form of impact play either with hands and brushes. However, other objects can be used depending on the amount of pain or bruising that wants to be inflicted. Short-range vs Long Range: Short-range objects include hand, brush, ruler, belt, paddle, or anything that requires you to stand fairly close to the spankee. Long-range objects include canes, crops, whips, cat o nine tails, and floggers. Safety: Practice before engaging in impact play if you’re using long-range or hard equipment. Always have your partner’s consent and a safe word. If you don’t have a safe word, use these colors: red = stop yellow = slow down or pause green = resume the scene If the spankee is gagged or cannot speak, use a hand signal as safe words. If you’re using a whip, practice with it before using it on someone. Aiming isn’t as easy as it looks and you could accidentally injure your sub/bottom. Also, keep in mind that whips can break the skin! Never hit the following areas: Mid-back - Your kidneys are located here Tailbone Spine Hips Stomach Joints These areas can be hit but with caution: Face (only with your hand) Crotch/genitalia Inner thighs Breasts/chest If you spank someone with a cane or whip and the spankee bleeds, clean your equipment before using it on someone else. A good thing to remember is that fatty areas work well with harder spankings and objects, while boney areas should not be hit with hard objects (like brushes and paddles) and should be hit moderately and lightly. Don’t be afraid to attend dungeons and observe how others use their toys and ask questions. Aftercare: Aftercare is extremely important. Not only could you have bruises and welts to soothe but you have to treat sub drop also. If you’re not familiar with sub drop or subspace, refer to this post or read on Google. Having an aftercare kit is a good start. It should include an icepack, wet cloths, bandaids, a blanket, water and Gatorade, pain relievers, and energy food. Do not leave your sub or bottom alone after a scene. Hold them, hug them, kiss them, cuddle them or anything that lets you know that you love them and soothes them. If you’re shaking, feeling lightheaded, panicking, or hyperventilating you should lie down and relax. I recommend taking deep breaths where you breathe in from your nose, hold it in, and then exhale until the next breath comes naturally. This is something that I was taught to do for panic attacks. This should help the tremors (shaking) stop, help you calm down, and bring your heartbeat and breathing back to normal. ~goodgirlsdoresearch    "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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Thank you for taking the time to read this and offer some feedback. I appreciate it. Have a nice weekend."Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Great info, and always things to remember. Thank you! Love your blogs!
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Thank you for putting this up
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I LOVE to give a good spanking and to ALWAYS leave my mark, so she knows who's in charge and who she belongs to...
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Always remember, Safe Sane and Consensual and have fun!
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Lets hope that those in need of this informative guide will heed and take note. For those already experienced, it never harms to refresh as more harm can be inflicted if not. Many thnaks for the refresh
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Always remember, Safe Sane and Consensual and have fun! "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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