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aliljaded 53F
23803 posts
12/5/2019 4:08 am
The Paradox...

Simply being a partner in a D/s relationship confers no inherent advantage, no guarantee of happiness nor fulfillment. Like any relationship, it thrives only when each partner accepts their responsibility as one-half of an intricate dance, making a conscious daily effort to celebrate their partner.

The paradox that every woman exploring submission must eventually learn to understand and accept is that in accepting his collar, and clicking her leash into place, she is not becoming a slave: she is being set free. It is not a man, but her freedom from inhibition, and the freedom to become who she has always wanted to be that she is giving herself to.

The challenge that every man aspiring to dominance must accept is in understanding that her submission doesn’t make him a master, it makes him a servant. Great dominants accept with glee the challenge of taking a powerful being into their capable hands and, like grapes from the best vines, knowing how to squeeze her in all the ways that extract the very finest of her fruit. Then with patience and dedication, allowing it to ferment into something seductive and beautiful.

~fireflyflashes


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


CorinnaGermany 62T

12/15/2019 5:33 am

very sweet


aliljaded 53F
8928 posts
12/6/2019 12:33 pm

    Quoting fourthandgoal:
    where do you find these marvelous pictures to enhance your blog
Anywhere and Everywhere.😊

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


fourthandgoal 68M
31 posts
12/6/2019 12:07 pm

where do you find these marvelous pictures to enhance your blog


jenny14 75T  
90361 posts
12/5/2019 9:54 am

ali

This is another true and beautiful piece


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


lighthouse4297 56F
1680 posts
12/5/2019 4:55 am

I could not agree more. Wonderful post


Gowron 69M
3112 posts
12/5/2019 4:45 am

Dominating a weak, indecisive person is of little value, maybe even abuse.
Now being granted control over a powerful person who knows what he or she wants is a gift.
It means that person trusts you, admires you enough to let him or her take care of them.


1uncommondom 77M

12/5/2019 4:40 am

I think this paradox
becomes much more
understandable if you
replace the word freedom
with the word liberated.
Because this isn't as much
letting the person free as
it is letting a dimension
of ourselves fulfill itself.
But this is just one perception.


aliljaded 53F
8928 posts
12/5/2019 4:09 am

I believe this is spot on.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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