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aliljaded 53F
23946 posts
7/2/2020 2:57 am
The Wrong Person

We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for? You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, This is the problem I want to have.

— Galway Kinnell


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


1uncommondom 77M

7/2/2020 6:29 am

Then there is loosing
the perfect person . .
And being okay with
how that makes you
the wrong person.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7021 posts
7/2/2020 4:47 am

Or there's the desperation method.


jenny14 75T  
90481 posts
7/2/2020 4:27 am

ali

This is complicated


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


Slutdream2 60M

7/2/2020 4:03 am

I really dig that pic and description


OldJeakel 73M
377 posts
7/2/2020 3:18 am

My friends used to joke that I was a really bad 'picker'.


JoElspanstp 70M

7/2/2020 3:01 am

That happens from time to time.


aliljaded 53F
8974 posts
7/2/2020 2:58 am

This is the problem I'd like to have.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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