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Control Before Submission: A Submissive’s Nature At Odds... Once a submissive puts her submission in the hands of her Dominant, she experiences such peace. So many of the things she had to worry about before are now out of her hands. What will she wear? Will she wake up on time? What if she gets anxious? All the little stresses that were once part of her day to day, are now simple rules, consistent support, and under the supervision of her Dominant’s will. It’s what her nature has been yearning for. Now, she can relax. But what about all the time leading up to submission? In the time between meeting her Dominant, and his control over her day to day life, she is in charge of all the decisions. She decides who is a prospective Daddy. She decides how fast he will earn that title. She decides when intimacy starts between them, and how fast it will progress. It’s so very important that she has control of things during this time, and yet, it’s not in her nature to want such control, or wield it in the presence of a Dominant that may one day be hers. It’s no wonder so many submissives rush through the screening process on their way towards submission. The temptation to hand everything over to Him as soon as possible much be almost impossible to resist. So hard to resist, that she is willing to do things before she is comfortable, allow him to take liberties with her body and her spirit that most would consider reckless, and hand Him the reins before she feels a complete trust that she should wait to feel. In the end, though, it’s the fact that she has ALL the control herself prior to submission, and gives it ALL to him in submission, that makes the power exchange so complete and intense, and makes the dynamic so successful. Hold onto that control little one. I know it’s nothing that you want, and that you yearn for it to be taken away from you. Just hold onto it long enough to make sure you have a Dominant worthy of taking it from you for a long time to come. Then, you can rest. Then, you can let it all go. empoweredsubmissive~ *Archive  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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Trust before control. Submission is not the gift . . Trust is the gift given through deferrence. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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7/12/2020 5:58 am |
A work of art! 
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ali This is such important advice! It may be difficult but it is better than being a bad or dangerous relatoinship.... A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Beautifully said!
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7/11/2020 3:59 pm |
So the message here is to be cautious? I get it.
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That’s particularly well said...
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 Slave rick
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7/11/2020 7:02 am |
Wise words. Not until a Dominant ears her complete submission should she willingly let it go.
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7/11/2020 5:47 am |
Trust before control. Submission is not the gift . . Trust is the gift given through deferrence.
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lovely. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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