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aliljaded 53F
23778 posts
9/14/2020 4:16 am
One Of The Biggest Mistakes

One of the biggest mistakes men make towards women is when they stop giving affection, tenderness, and attention in words and actions. And this mistake leads to a breakdown in the relationship. No matter how strong, independent and independent women are, they still remain in their soul's little girls who want to get their hands on, want warmth, comfort, tenderness, affection, attention, care ...
At the beginning of a relationship, a man gives the woman this “drug” necessary for her. But when a man conquers a woman, He for some reason believes that the mission in terms of the amount of affection, tenderness, and attention has already been completed and ceases to see in a woman that very little girl who once believed in him ... He does not understand that a woman is arranged according to the other, that she needs tenderness, affection, attention, recognition of her as the only one, and, if not constantly, then as often as possible ... He just stupidly stops giving her this most necessary "drug". And she begins to languish, to fade, like that flower in a pot that they stopped watering ... There is hope in her soul, she lives in the past, she often recalls what he was before. She still hopes that he will become the same as before ... And he becomes lazy, deaf, and uncomprehending, considering that in their relationship everything has already been built and there is nowhere to move forward. This is where the turning point comes. Because a flower is drawn to the light, to the Sun, and if this flower does not receive it, it starts looking for another alternative in order to see the light again And if a man is a moron, then He will not fully understand why he lost his flower, not understanding, that one fine day he himself voluntarily refused to be the Sun...

~sirdragon


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


tim1895 72M
44 posts
9/17/2020 9:33 am

jaded,
you post some very nice sentimental things but this post ihate in a way...love the words and the thought but it points the finger at men as if they are the cause of relationships going sour. turn it around, men need the kindness and nurturing just as much as women and without it your man will stop caring and likely look else where. even the hardest thick skinned dom needs to know he's wanted and desired in one way or another.


Aprilsmith 37F

9/15/2020 10:13 pm

agreed


LyvEn4payne 71M

9/14/2020 9:27 am

I agree partially. You have a number of hard boiled cynical submissive women on this site who would never shed a tear for lack of affection. I don't understand them.

Affection and tenderness are found in the vanilla world too. These few cynics would be just as hard boiled there. It is a matter of character traits.


drmgirl622 68F  
26110 posts
9/14/2020 8:25 am

The affection is critical....


naturist19 63M

9/14/2020 7:45 am

I agree with your words, but it matters not when the person you love is no more.


BlkBdsmMstr1 71M  
188 posts
9/14/2020 6:41 am

aliljaded, a woman is like a garden, if you want the garden to bloom with pretty flowers, then you must tend to it, nuture it, keep the weeds out and keep it watered...with love. That way you keep your garden and the woman looking very nice


slaveforyou365 63M  
4512 posts
9/14/2020 5:32 am



Slave rick


bimom4taboo 54F
2097 posts
9/14/2020 4:56 am

so true, it yrs before i got rid of him. the best thing i did. lasted as long as i could for the kid's. but that time came for me to move on. very pretty pic. and women.


atouch_01 67M
312 posts
9/14/2020 4:44 am

Good stuff!


jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
9/14/2020 4:30 am

ali

VERY true!

Also , a relationship needs both parties to work at it...


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
9/14/2020 4:26 am

Nailed it.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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