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aliljaded 53F
23778 posts
9/21/2020 3:53 am
Absolute Trust

It is difficult to fathom the heart of D/s until you have experienced first hand the depth and power of the bond between Dominant and submissive. What looks like one-sided command and obedience is actually, in its highest form, unbridled mutual devotion. But the strength of that bond and the depth of that devotion stem from, and are singularly dependent upon, one thing, absolute trust.”

~ For The Love of a Submissive, 2019


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


JoElspanstp 70M

9/23/2020 2:46 pm

So true.


lovingcaring44 64F

9/22/2020 10:49 am

DemonDaughter,
I agree,on the intuitives part.
I dont think you can totally realy on that, when you want to engage in SM,

You need to be safe, 100 % .
You need to know the background from that person, mental state of mind, patience, etc...
You need to know!! certain things, before you get involved with someone.

It is not a vanilla relation / contact.
Although, in vanilla relations can be violence.
SM is not violence, but love... 😍💘


BlkBdsmMstr1 71M  
188 posts
9/21/2020 4:19 pm

Yes trust takes takes time. It develops from the Dominant and submissive respecting each other, learning about each other and each of them "walking the talk!". It also means being responsible and accountable which is not easy to do.


drmgirl622 68F  
26110 posts
9/21/2020 7:08 am

Just nodding my head.....


lovingcaring44 64F

9/21/2020 6:50 am

I agree, that is why i dont get it, that some guys, maybe women too, just want you to jump into the deep,and give your trust, to.someone you really dont know, anything about....
That is a diaster, waiting to happen.

He/she does not know you, either....

I believe, that is the sole reason soo many play D/s contacts break up, so fast... and they repeat the same act, over and over again...

Great writing, thank you! 😘


1uncommondom 77M

9/21/2020 6:22 am

Forget the
betrayal
of your trust,
but never
forget the lesson.


atouch_01 67M
312 posts
9/21/2020 4:35 am

Absolutely!


DancingDom 74M
22588 posts
9/21/2020 4:32 am

Total trust leads to unconditional love. It is my quest to get to that place again. It is so fulfilling.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
9/21/2020 4:30 am

ali

This is lovely as you say and , so true!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
9/21/2020 3:55 am

Lovely.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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