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Not Fooled I adore the internet. It’s a way to connect effortlessly with people who share a part of my life so few know about. I’ve been able to learn and explore things that would otherwise have been difficult to come across. But the internet has done it’s fair share of harm too. It’s easy to get lost in the glamorous images and sexy stories posted, and before long the grass looks a whole lot greener on the neighbor’s side of the fence. It’s a constant effort to remind myself that these are snapshots of people’s lives, not complete images. And they’re photo-shopped, carefully chosen, edited ones at that. I have to be vigilant to be sure I’m not fooled into believing everything I see. I need to constantly remind myself that what I see isn’t necessarily a reflection of what exists. Not every woman practicing BDSM is a size 0. D/s couples disagree. Sometimes they fight. The people in those pictures suffer from depression, PTSD, and anxiety. Not every sub is female, and not every Dom is male. Sometimes shit happens. (Quite literally, if you enjoy anal play.) Sometimes a position hurts, heads bang together, legs give out, or you end up roaring with laughter and not release. Bondage doesn’t just happen. There’s preparation, and safety precautions, and chaffing. Those don’t show in pictures. Not every sub can deepthroat a 9-inch cock. For that matter, not every man has a 9-inch cock. (Shocking, I know.) People have bad days. Dom's cry. Subs forget and act out. Whether or not you enjoy anal, or humiliation or bruising isn’t what defines you…on either side of the slash. There’s nothing wrong with being a Top, or a bottom, and not wanting that dynamic to leave the bedroom. And, on that note, Dominance and submission are not about kinky sex. You can fuck in the dark in the missionary position, or not at all for that matter, and still be in a power exchange relationship. So I try to step back. I look at the photo of the woman, with the perfect hair and flat stomach, kneeling before a man with a pristine suit and a three thousand dollar watch on his wrist, and try to remind myself that the reality is better. The messy tearful days, the laughter over a queef at the wrong moment, the note left behind on a busy morning, and the run in a stocking on a soft chubby thigh… those things are perfect too. ~pleasurewhore *Archive  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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Mmmmmm so sultry 
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A nice smile and twinkle in the eye. But here is a song for you: That's My Weakness Now - Helen Kane  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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bottom line is no one is perfect in spite of what you see in the media.
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Reality comes in all forms, shapes and sizes. We are dealing with reality to come to the place were we accept it and embrace it for the joy that it has to give us.
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This is just perfect !
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A nice smile and twinkle in the eye. But here is a song for you: That's My Weakness Now - Helen Kane "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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very good And i love that pic
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good read
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10/4/2020 6:30 am |
Truer words have never been spoken. Once people read, and understand (yeah, i know...) what you have just posted, maybe (and that's a BIG maybe), the walls will come down and people on this site will begin to realize reality is much more fun than they think...
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10/4/2020 5:29 am |
Not to mention that some people are looking for trainees rather than a companion.
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So so true!
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You make a valid point about any form of media. The things we are 'sold' on offes us a great night of sex. The ups, downs and all the little things in between are what make a great life.
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Share your weaknesses. Share your hard moments. Share your real side. It'll either scare away every fake person in your life or it will inspire them to finally let go of that mirage called "perfection," which will open the doors to the most important relationships you'll ever be a part of. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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