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A real woman? What does that even mean? I think I can help clear up the confusion... I see it the time written in online dating profiles. Guys say they want something real. They claim they are looking for a real woman for a real relationship. And that’s what they believe they want. Real. That’s is, as long as “real” comes in a perfect package. The minute “real” looks like something other than a Barbie doll or a porn model, they run straight the next “real” girl. So just in case, there’s some confusion, let me explain what “real” really is. Real is: The girl that comes out of the bathroom in her sexiest lingerie with a band-aid on her leg because she cut herself shaving them. For you. That’s real. The girl that loves stilettos but is reluctant to wear them for you because she knows she can’t walk in them too well and she’s had a broken ankle and knows how bad that is. That’s real. The girl whose heart beats out her chest for you but she’s trying to be calm, cool, and collected. Too many people have told her she’s intimidating and too much and she’s trying to act aloof because she terrified of scaring you away. That’s real. The girl who has been working hours a day and hasn’t had a free moment do something for her herself and get a mani/Pedi before her big date with you. That's real. The girl whose sexy parts might be a little stubbly because laser hair removal costs a bazillion dollars and she didn’t know she was going see you today and didn’t shave between her legs that morning. That’s real. The girl who has one room in her house that looks like a laundry explosion because she’s out of closet space and the last thing she can think about at the end of the day is where to put this laundry. That’s real. The girl whose eyes are swollen and red from crying night because she just lost a pet or someone close her. That’s real. The girl who overslept and didn’t have time wash her hair so she’s wearing it put in a bun. That’s real. The girl who loves you and wants call you Sir and be dominated but the part of her that suffers from PTSD from being beaten by an abusive psycho ex-boyfriend is terrified of wanting be spanked. That’s real. The girl who doesn’t feel like being your sex kitten because her body feels weird and gross thanks being her period. The last thing she feels is hot and sexy and she needs just be cuddled in her flannel PJs at the risk of disappointing you. That’s real. The girl who wants accept your invitation the beach but won’t because she knows she’ll have wear a bathing suit. She’s still learning love her body and feels like she won’t measure the other girls she knows you’ll be looking at. That’s real. The girl who is starting show gray hair here and there because she works hard and manages daily career and life pressures that most people in her peer group can’t even imagine. That’s real. So dear gentlemen friends, the next time you write in a profile, or talk about wanting a real woman, think about what “real” means. If you can truly accept real and its imperfections, then, by means, carry . If one of the thousands of things that makes a woman real, is a turn off you because you want a woman look like Barbie or porn models, then please reconsider your priorities. At the very least, reconsider your words…instead of writing “seeking a real woman” try writing “seeking a perfect woman”. *Author Unknown  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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10/15/2020 12:26 pm |
Your blog should be in the Number 1 slot, not mine. That's the confusion. Hope you are well. 
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I totally agree with you, a real woman is hard to find on here and other sites as well. I just want a good woman who likes same things I like doing both in bed and out. I am bisexual so I know it’s harder to find right woman who understands.
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10/15/2020 10:27 am |
I want a woman who is like that so I can show her how none of it matters. Those are physical, and what matters to me is the emotional and mental.
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This couldn't be more true !
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Awesome said.  Slave rick
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aliljaded what this person wrote is about the "imperfections" that all women have, you have to take those as well as all the things you love. John Legend song "All of Me" sums this up perfectly "Cuz all of me love all of you Love your curves and all your edges All your perfect imperfections Give your all to me I'll give my all to you" That is what true intimacy is all about. 
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I love this message so much. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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