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The Paradox of Dominance & Submission Simply being a partner in a D/s relationship confers no inherent advantage, no guarantee of happiness nor fulfillment. Like any relationship, it thrives only when each partner accepts their responsibility as one half of an intricate dance, making a conscious daily effort to celebrate their partner. The paradox that every woman exploring submission must eventually learn to understand and accept is that in accepting his collar, and clicking her leash into place, she is not becoming a slave: she is being set free. It is not a man, but her freedom from inhibition, and the freedom to become who she has always wanted to be that she is giving herself to. The challenge that every man aspiring to dominance must accept is in understanding that her submission doesn’t make him a master, it makes him a servant. Great dominants accept with glee the challenge of taking a powerful being into their capable hands and, like grapes from the best vines, knowing how to squeeze her in all the ways that extract the very finest of her fruit. Then with patience and dedication, allowing it to ferment into something seductive and beautiful. Starry Night~ *Archive  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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12/14/2020 6:00 am |
We often get trapped by things of our own doing. When the trappings become too much we want to be free of them. The hunger might still be there and the cycle starts over again. I have never desired to be a Master. Rather I would just help a submissive one along the way if I actually had something of substance to contribute. There is a conundrum somewhere in there, but I am very tired.
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Ludo knows ."Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Oh, I'm going to need to read more of your stuff. It isn't for the truth (that's there), but for the beauty of the words. And as to Keats, yes.
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12/11/2020 2:02 pm |
Master/slave, Dominant/submissive, Each is but halve of a the circle. The paradox is that the circle is a spiral.
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Yes. To yield to someone and let him or her "force" you to do the things you craved yet never allowed yourself to do. To let someone guide you into becoming the one you always wanted to be. Even if you remain unchanged in the eyes of everyone else.
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Very insightful. Freedom from inhibition is what I seek to confer on her.
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agree!
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 Slave rick
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This is an interesting perspective. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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