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THE PEN IS MIGHTIER THAN THE SWORD “I saw a post/photo/gif” the sentence that launched 00 words. Shame. You know the drill - skedaddle or biscuit up and nice… You know, this ’writing on your subs body’ stuff - with naughty and/or derogatory words and phrases seeming to take center stage - always felt a bit meh to me. First because, if anyone tried to write ‘cum dumpster’ or ‘’ on me they’d lose an arm, and second because, Nah - just not my thing. We did give it a go obviously (the naughty/derogatory words) because adventurous as and honestly, how can you know for sure whether you like something or not, if you don’t try at least once? was meh. For both of us. He did retain both arms though…but just. Then one morning a long long time ago he said ’hey, where’s that pen?’ and I was like ’in the pen place?’ and he was like ’go get ’ and I was like ’yes Sir’ while rolling my eyes so hard I nearly pulled an eyelash. Ahem. Anyway. He had me lie down on my belly and he wrote beautiful affirming loving words of intentional ownership across my back. Then he stood me up and wrote beautiful things across my front. And then we got dressed and carpéd the out of that Diem. was an amazing feeling carrying his words on my body that day. I felt like I’d been gifted with and wrapped up in a Cloak of Ultimate Protection. Nothing could penetrate the web of words he had deliberately woven around me. As the writing faded the words were absorbed into my skin and clearly became part of my psyche and physiological structure because even though it’s been years since he did that - I can still feel every single one as if he’s just written them. Words hold and carry power. Writing on your submissive’s body, while certainly, a kinky act of fuckery is also a powerful act of ownership and intention, and if my experience is anything to go by - can/will leave a mark that fades but never fully disappears, just gets absorbed into the psyche and quietly informs future engagement. Obviously, words have different meanings to different folks but the real power a word holds or communicates is found in its personal meaning interpretation and association to a particular individual. This is why the pen is mightier than the sword. A blade can cut. But a pen changes absolutely everything every time writes. Thank you for reading - have a great day🌻 TTFN 🐾 Shiny P.S. in my experience, an eyeliner pen (not pencil - that will smudge pretty immediately) works really well - waterproof for added longevity. Do not use felt tips or permanent markers unless specifically marked body-safe, even then please use with caution - hives are not expressions of love…in any language. P.P.S biccy time! Enjoy… ~itsshinycollectordestinyworld *Archive  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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I've never understood the use of derogatories, particularly in a relationship. Don't have a pen? Quietly whisper in an ear at a time of extreme connection, with an expression that projects your true feelings.  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I've heard it's good to use restraint of pen and tongue. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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ali I have found writing on the body with lipstick can be very sexy too "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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The "Penis mightier than the sword" ? Probably not, but an interesting (Freudian) corruption, at the risk of practicing psychiatry without a license. PoorEdward Bulwer-Lytton must be rolling over in his grave... or perhaps not. As a lover of words, thank you for your blog "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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This is a variation on The First (and most important) Agreement from the Toltec Wisdom Book, The Four Agreements "Be impeccable with your word." The words you choose can have power to harm or heal. When they are loving and supportive, they carry the power to uplift not only the person they are directed at, but also the person saying or writing them. When they are harsh, they carry the equivalent power to harm the hearer and the speaker, because healing words cause the hearer to feel warmth toward the speaker while hateful words cause the hearer to project hate in response which ultimately fouls the relationship and harms the speaker or writer of the word. Being impeccable means choosing carefully and precisely to convey feelings that will favorably influence the hearer and not rebound against you. I learned this from a free spirit I still call My Beautiful Girl.  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I've never understood the use of derogatories, particularly in a relationship. Don't have a pen? Quietly whisper in an ear at a time of extreme connection, with an expression that projects your true feelings.
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ali I have found writing on the body with lipstick can be very sexy too A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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I think that is sexy AF
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I've heard it's good to use restraint of pen and tongue. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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This is a variation on The First (and most important) Agreement from the Toltec Wisdom Book, The Four Agreements "Be impeccable with your word." The words you choose can have power to harm or heal. When they are loving and supportive, they carry the power to uplift not only the person they are directed at, but also the person saying or writing them. When they are harsh, they carry the equivalent power to harm the hearer and the speaker, because healing words cause the hearer to feel warmth toward the speaker while hateful words cause the hearer to project hate in response which ultimately fouls the relationship and harms the speaker or writer of the word. Being impeccable means choosing carefully and precisely to convey feelings that will favorably influence the hearer and not rebound against you. I learned this from a free spirit I still call My Beautiful Girl.
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THE DICK is also mightier than THE SWORD....
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12/26/2020 8:54 am |
very nice and thanks for the points
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The "Penis mightier than the sword" ? Probably not, but an interesting (Freudian) corruption, at the risk of practicing psychiatry without a license. PoorEdward Bulwer-Lytton must be rolling over in his grave... or perhaps not. As a lover of words, thank you for your blog
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Affirmation bonds are always stronger...deeper...
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Loving affirmations always touch deeper, strengthens the bonds between you, are more possessive
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Love it, the photo is FanDAMNtastic
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Your words can plant a seed that will bloom or burn a relationship to the ground.
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This is really an amazing piece. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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