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Worshipping a Dominant The notion of a submissive worshiping her Dominant in this way is quite foreign to anyone who has not experienced the power and attraction of a loving D/s relationship. Even naturally submissive women can find the overpowering need to please and worship their Dominant in this most intimate of ways to be at first perplexing and out of character with their prior experience. This shift can partly be explained by the fact that the competent Dominant inspires and leads a submissive to give as opposed to taking from them. A submissive in a loving D/s relationship rarely feels taken from or taken advantage of but instead possesses an unquenchable thirst to give, to please, and be pleasing. They feel whole and complete when fulfilling the needs and desires of their Dominant just as a Dominant feels whole and complete in fulfilling the needs of their submissive through strength, structure, and devotion. To the vanilla observer, this dynamic makes no sense whatsoever. It appears lopsided, as though it could only be the product of weak personalities or brainwashing. To the D/s partners of strong character and will, pleasing and fulfilling one another in this and many other ways are the very essence of their existence. No brainwashing required. thank you. ~ For The Love of a Submissive, 2019  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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You think so deep and write so beautifully
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DOMs are charismatic and full of confidence always in charge its WHO they are.... 
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If done properly, I believe that the dom has the toughest role in the dynamic. Most, however, take the easy way out, and have no idea of what true bdsm is. It's a shame that this site seems to promote such. Now I'm not suggesting that the sub gets the easy ride, but with the sub's needs and limits in mind, the dom has the job of effectively steering the relationship. With this comes massive responsibility, intuitive thinking, and being very in touch with the submissive mind and emotion. Power is easily abused, and restraint difficult to control. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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If done properly, I believe that the dom has the toughest role in the dynamic. Most, however, take the easy way out, and have no idea of what true bdsm is. It's a shame that this site seems to promote such. Now I'm not suggesting that the sub gets the easy ride, but with the sub's needs and limits in mind, the dom has the job of effectively steering the relationship. With this comes massive responsibility, intuitive thinking, and being very in touch with the submissive mind and emotion. Power is easily abused, and restraint difficult to control.
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12/28/2020 2:01 am |
Hot xx
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aliljaded, thank you for sharing this, it is so beautifully put and so true. Makes my heart smile. happily collared, branded la kajira of MASTER ADOMIS4U2
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In the best of relations, both know and need not even say what they feel. It simply is.
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ali "Enough said"!! So true!  This is beautiful and loving couples of any type can worship each other... A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Being a Dominant the key phrase is "...Dominant feels whole and complete in fulfilling the needs of their submissive through strength, structure, and devotion." because it's about this kind of giving that the submissive willingly submits to her Dominant.  . As you have posted in of your blogs ali, both ends of the leash the Dominant and the submissive have their responsibilities /obligations to the other end
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Those charismatic dominants have no need for demands because the sub can feel it in their soul.
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Enough said. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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