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aliljaded 53F
23781 posts
2/6/2021 5:04 am
Being Submissive

Being submissive, to me, isn’t a choice. I didn’t choose for my earliest sexual fantasies to include being restrained, punished, or controlled. You’re submissive whether or not you have a Dom/me or Sir or Master. You’re submissive even if you have a long-distance D/s relationship. You’re submissive even if your D/s isn’t 24-7. You’re submissive even if you’re alone with your thoughts. You’re submissive whether or not you fight it, feel good about it, or bad about it. I’ve done all those things. If you are submissive, you just are. And just own it.


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
2/6/2021 4:43 pm

ali

As you say, we are born this way and cannot change it....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


NuclearRenegadee 63M
123 posts
2/6/2021 1:40 pm


Casualfun1961 63M

2/6/2021 11:34 am

Fuck that’s hot


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
2/6/2021 8:11 am

Amen to that

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


drmgirl622 68F  
26119 posts
2/6/2021 7:28 am

Once the "owning it" happens a sense of calm reaches into the soul......


lemonsong77 74M
258 posts
2/6/2021 6:15 am

Knew a very submissive woman who when encourage could really enjoy taking charge. The door always opens both ways and I suspect you'd be wonderful when in charge albeit knowing you'd enjoy the opposite role better. Then again, switching can be quite addicting. Not suggesting you don't know yourself. Just that a submissive can be a wonderful top when encouraged to surprise.


DancingDom 74M
22592 posts
2/6/2021 6:00 am

Well if one is not actively involved you and join the Submissive Reserve - Be All that You can Be. Meaning: You don't have to be involved to be yourself, there are other element to life besides the submissive elements.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Gowron 69M
3112 posts
2/6/2021 5:59 am

I agree. I guess I was born this way. I was doing self bondage and having bondage fantasies long before I knew where babies came from.

No Internet, no BDSM magazines. Just something I felt, unrelated to sex (at the time).


bimom4taboo 54F
2099 posts
2/6/2021 5:40 am

Yes Miss. i have since i was a very young girl. proud to be


masterpigabuse 58M
15 posts
2/6/2021 5:39 am

I guess this applies to all of us


Plzrmeister 67M  
10464 posts
2/6/2021 5:33 am

If you are submissive, you just are. And just own it.

I might add in embrace it too.

Perhaps an even more important aspect ......

Make Women Female Again


gafferh 68M
308 posts
2/6/2021 5:29 am

Absolutely...


Masterflex5 39M
25 posts
2/6/2021 5:25 am

Well said. There’s a instilled desire either way.


taboograndpa1 75M

2/6/2021 5:14 am

Excellent! Too many i have met do not understand what you have said. Thank you for putting out what is necessary for one to be a true submissive.


aliljaded 53F
8927 posts
2/6/2021 5:07 am

Here endeth the lesson.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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