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Blogs > aliljaded > It's All Relevant

aliljaded 53F
23935 posts
4/13/2021 4:59 am
In The End, You're All You've Got...
If you met your exact self as another person, would you like them? Would they be a good friend? Would they seem kind, generous, and loving? Would they have time and patience, and invest in your friendship? Would you feel good in their presence? Would they make you laugh? Would you truly want to spend time with them? Would they be a good influence? Remember, no one on earth spends more time with you than — you. Be a good friend to yourself. The best way to be a good friend to yourself is to be a good person. Be the kind of person you wish you had in your life because who you are, is exactly who you’ve got.

— Bryant McGill

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
amelior8 58M
42 posts
4/14/2021 4:51 pm

 I bet you can even though you might be aliljaded.


aliljaded 53F
8967 posts
4/14/2021 6:20 am
    Quoting amelior8:
    You are therefor I am.

    Thank heavens the best version of ourselves isn't static. We are constantly nurturing attributes and working on shortcomings. The dynamism of life. While it may be true that in the end you are all you've got the possibility of you being better because of them is alluring. Can you imagine if in the end all you got is "us"?
No, I cannot imagine that.
"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


Tckg12 69M
2550 posts
4/14/2021 2:13 am

 spot on!


amelior8 58M
42 posts
4/13/2021 4:41 pm

 You are therefor I am.

Thank heavens the best version of ourselves isn't static. We are constantly nurturing attributes and working on shortcomings. The dynamism of life. While it may be true that in the end you are all you've got the possibility of you being better because of them is alluring. Can you imagine if in the end all you got is "us"?


Dave54321 62M
2723 posts
4/13/2021 1:11 pm

 Very good advice.


jenny14 75T  
90475 posts
4/13/2021 11:45 am

 ali

This is excellent advice and a spur to be Good People!
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


Keepitfun124 63M

4/13/2021 6:30 am

 So insightful


1uncommondom 77M

4/13/2021 5:52 am

 The heart doesn't have eyes to see
how pretty they think they are or
ears to hear their empty promises.
It sings a song that only one other
heart knows the words to.


drmgirl622 68F  
26189 posts
4/13/2021 5:39 am

 Very true words


DancingDom 74M
22620 posts
4/13/2021 5:20 am

 Good point.
"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


aliljaded 53F
8967 posts
4/13/2021 4:59 am
"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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