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aliljaded 53F
23942 posts
6/11/2021 5:16 am
Before you ever do this…



You had better know you are.

You need strength and total self-assuredness before you give of yourself to another.

I can’t stress the emotional damage that can be done when a Dominant doesn’t know and/or care what he is doing and a submissive isn’t at a safe emotional place to be involved in any aspect of BDSM.

’s not a situation enter or engage in lightly.

Don’t underestimate the damage that can be caused even if you are online.

People fall hard and fast and get tangled up emotionally..and find themselves crying into their pillows for another doesn’t care at all about their well-being.

BDSM is not a game.

can become a psychological and physical minefield in the hands of another doesn’t care, and isn’t experienced, or might be very experienced and have a wider sadistic streak than you originally thought.

You had better know the ’ why ’ you are a submissive.

You had better know the ’ why ’ another is a Dominant.

And clearly understand the underlying psychological aspects of each, before you engage.

~ beautflstranger

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


jenny14 75T  
90458 posts
6/11/2021 7:39 pm

ali

This is such wonderful advice!!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
6/11/2021 5:43 pm

Profoundly reasonable...


SithLordDJ 43M

6/11/2021 1:48 pm

The mind fuck is sometimes more powerful than anything that can be done to the body.

Your post is simple and basic, but it is true.

Certainty is the key that unlocks the door to any Dungeon any where at any time.


ExNameForUse 54F
5766 posts
6/11/2021 12:42 pm

Highly important and so very true...


Yern2lic 67M
1346 posts
6/11/2021 6:58 am

And what you say is deafening, people should take heed


DancingDom 74M
22614 posts
6/11/2021 6:42 am

    Quoting slappappy:
    You have to have your own house in order, before you can consider dominating another. You must know duty, honor, and responsibility.
exactly. And a submissive needs to know herself, her desires and needs. She needs to let him/her explain themselves to them before they commit to anything.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Artschoolgrad 47M
8851 posts
6/11/2021 5:41 am

hugely important!


slaveforyou365 63M  
4528 posts
6/11/2021 5:33 am



Slave rick


pzkw 63M  
1311 posts
6/11/2021 5:33 am

Well, given the woman in the picture, not only would I want to spank her ass, I definitely would want to bite and kiss that gorgeous ass....all part of trying to satisfy both of us.


slappappy 68M
24 posts
6/11/2021 5:29 am

You have to have your own house in order, before you can consider dominating another. You must know duty, honor, and responsibility.


aliljaded 53F
8965 posts
6/11/2021 5:17 am

Just Sayin'

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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