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The art of orgasm control In real life, it takes learning AND practice on both sides. Even before we knew the terms orgasm control or D/s, He was learning/teaching. It was patient, sweet, and incredibly intimate. I was young and had only begun to explore all the wonders of my own body. He started so simply. “I want you to hold off cumming but get as close as you can. I have a plan.” He had me ride him so I could control the movement, depth, speed. He just watched, encouraged, asked questions, gave directions all while telling me how incredible I was. And when I’d get close, He had me just stop and place my palms against his. Then, He just talked to me. He’d ask me about a motion I liked, an expression on my face, or a gasp. He’d regale me with how sexy and erotic I was. He was learning my body and me. He was guiding me to learn, to experience my own pleasure. And with a little consistent practice, we got to the place where he said “This time, when I tell you to cum, I want you to keep your eyes open. I want you to look at me. I want to watch every second. I want to follow you wherever it is you go when you cum like that. I want you to take me with you.” He must have had me on that edge 4 or 5 times before He told me to cum. It was mind-boggling. Wave after wave of intensity washing through me. I kept my eyes open according to Him. But all I saw was a soft grey after a few seconds. After that, He knew he had the power to unlock all the secrets of my body, whether I wanted to give them up or not. Sure, now it’s easy for Him to turn me into a quivering, sopping, begging mess. But that’s because He took the time to learn and to teach. submissive-seeking~  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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"..that’s because He took the time to learn and to teach." - this sums up everything...
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this is absolutely lovely  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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It is pretty amazing to me that a woman can respond to verbal or simple touch commends. Some take a bit longer to reach that ability and some not so long. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Edging is fun and extremely rewarding. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I know a Domme that is a master at this craft  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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That's so important. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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ali "But that’s because He took the time to learn and to teach." This is so important in all parts of the Life-Style! xx"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Lovely and exciting.....now to the next step. You naked (other than garters and stockings) under a slit dress, nice restaurant, us in the back booth. Me across from you at the table and I smile "that" smile that tells you that I want you be very naughty tonight. I tell you to watch me only do not look around and slowly masturbate for me.....I watch as you quietly slip your hand under your dress.....it opens slightly and I see the fear, arousal and need as you slip two fingers into your dripping cunt.....and continue to touch yourself, I tell you to taste your juices, you blush, but do as you are told, a few people are now watching as you side your hand between those lovely thighs....and begin anew your eyes widen as I tell you that there are a few people watching and to spread your legs wider and let the dress fall open a little wider........your breathing is heavier as the waiter stops by our table, looks at you as you blush heavily and moan softly..... he asks if you are OK? I tell him that you are fine and that you are masturbating.......your face and chest flush in embarrassment..... he smiles and leaves and obviously tells the kitchen staff as I see them peeking out between the doors.....I tell you.....again you flush heavily, but moan louder....I tell you not to cum.....yet! When the meal arrives I tell you to eat now.......you grudgingly remove your fingers, look at me, licks them and you beg....please let me cum....I smile and tell you that you have to ask the waiter for permission.....your eyes roll back in your head, you groan and your eyes roll back in your head.....as dinner continues the waiter stops by and I tell him that you have something to ask him....you face flushing bright red....and you ask in a very low voice, will you allow me to cum? He looks at you and says what did you just say....smiles and then waits for you to ask again....you do, in a louder voice..... May I cum Please, he smiles, looks at me I nod and he tells you that you may cum, but he wants to watch. Again you flush as the older couple at the next table look somewhat startled but now watch closely.....I not to you and your hands slip between your legs and you moan even louder now.....I tell you "Cum my slut" and you do, hard and squishy, your fingers delve deep into your now fully aroused cunt and body, you sit back in the chair......lost in your orgasm as you moan over and over as the waves of pleasure and humiliation flow through your body till finally you squeal slightly, you feel your body and mind exploding at the same time you feel your cum explode as you squirt heavily, head back as you slowly realize where you are, you open your eyes to see most of the restaurant patrons now stand and applaud........ You cum again... "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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ali "But that’s because He took the time to learn and to teach." This is so important in all parts of the Life-Style! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Great piece. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I know a Domme that is a master at this craft
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Edging is fun and extremely rewarding.
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It is pretty amazing to me that a woman can respond to verbal or simple touch commends. Some take a bit longer to reach that ability and some not so long. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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this is absolutely lovely
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