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Blogs > aliljaded > It's All Relevant

aliljaded 53F
23943 posts
8/23/2021 3:42 am
The Paradox...
Simply being a partner in a D/s relationship confers no inherent advantage, no guarantee of happiness nor fulfillment. Like any relationship, it thrives only when each partner accepts their responsibility as one-half of an intricate dance, making a conscious daily effort to celebrate their partner.

The paradox that every woman exploring submission must eventually learn to understand and accept is that in accepting his collar, and clicking her leash into place, she is not becoming a slave: she is being set free. It is not a man, but her freedom from inhibition and the freedom to become who she has always wanted to be that she is giving herself to.

The challenge that every man aspiring to dominance must accept is in understanding that her submission doesn’t make him a master, it makes him a servant. Great dominants accept with glee the challenge of taking a powerful being into their capable hands and, like grapes from the best vines, knowing how to squeeze her in all the ways that extract the very finest of her fruit. Then with patience and dedication, allowing it to ferment into something seductive and beautiful.

~fireflyflashes

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"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
jenny14 75T  
90463 posts
8/23/2021 11:27 pm

 ali

This is an interesting and thoughtful way of looking at a D/ S relationship...
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


drmgirl622 68F  
26183 posts
8/23/2021 9:00 am

 I love the grape analogy


slaveforyou365 63M  
4528 posts
8/23/2021 4:34 am

Slave rick


1uncommondom 77M

8/23/2021 4:11 am

 I have read this before and
while I agree with the principle
of the paradox I disagree with
the term "freedom" and believe
it should be liberation.
In the difference between the
two terms is the understanding
that submission is not to another
person, thing or ideal but to the
innate cravings to please.


aliljaded 53F
8966 posts
8/23/2021 3:44 am

 I'd have to agree.
"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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