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Not Fooled I adore the internet. It’s a way connect effortlessly with people who share a part of my life so few know about. I’ve been able learn and explore things that would otherwise have been difficult come across. But the internet has done its fair share of harm too. It’s easy to get lost in the glamorous images and sexy stories posted, and before long the grass looks a whole lot greener on the neighbor’s side of the fence. It’s a constant effort to remind myself that these are snapshots of people’s lives, not complete images. And they’re photo-shopped, carefully chosen, edited ones at that. I have to be vigilant to be sure I’m not fooled into believing everything I see. I need to constantly remind myself that what I see isn’t necessarily a reflection of what exists. Not every woman practicing BDSM is a size 0. D/s couples disagree. Sometimes they fight. The people in those pictures suffer from depression, PTSD, and anxiety. Not every sub is female, and not every Dom is male. Sometimes shit happens. (Quite literally, if you enjoy anal .) Sometimes a position hurts, heads bang together, legs give out, or you end roaring with laughter and not release. Bondage doesn’t just happen. There’s preparation, and safety precautions, and chaffing. Those don’t show in pictures. Not every sub can deepthroat a 9-inch cock. For that matter, not every man has a 9-inch cock. (Shocking, I know.) People have bad days. Dom's cry. Subs forget and act out. Whether or not you enjoy anal, or humiliation or bruising isn’t what defines you…on either side of the slash. There’s nothing wrong with being a Top, or a bottom, and not wanting that dynamic to leave the bedroom. And, on that note, Dominance and submission are not about kinky sex. You can fuck in the dark in the<b> missionary </font></b>position, or not at for that matter, and still be in a power exchange relationship. So I try step back. I look at the photo of the woman, with the perfect hair and flat stomach, kneeling before a man with a pristine suit and a thousand dollar watch his wrist, and try remind myself that the reality is better. The messy tearful days, the laughter over a queef at the wrong moment, the note left behind on a busy morning, and the run in a stocking on a soft chubby thigh… those things are perfect too. ~pleasurewhore **Archive  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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1/26/2022 12:10 pm |
I like this. The picture is really good.
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What you've posted above is true. The truth is an expensive gift, don't expect it from cheap people.
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His zipper must be fascinating.
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Lives do not imitate art.
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Best not to wear a watch. That way you can get lost in the time with your partner. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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The reality is better. Couldn't agree more. I think far too many people around here live in a fantasy world, or wish they did. We all have 'the real world' to deal with 24/7/365. It can be messy at times and it's ever changing. Make Women Female Again
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true!
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9/13/2021 3:39 am |
Couldn’t say it any better. You hit the nail on the head.
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Reposting this piece for content. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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