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aliljaded 53F
23780 posts
11/24/2021 12:20 am
All By Doing Noting...

There are times when D/s may seem an action-packed affair, filled with sex and sensation, blow jobs and spanking, kinky toys, you name it. And to be sure these are the kind of things people will associate with the dynamic. These are the ‘games’ many crave.

A sub may long to be tied, flogged, shackled, used and degraded, and fucked senseless while hanging upside down from the rafters. And then there is this rampant male libido just aching to be satisfied. This Dom needs to wave his whip around and make use of his submissive’s services in every imaginable way, around the clock.

No matter how hard we try we cannot keep that up 24/7. And it is not what defines a Dom and a sub. There is so much more. And if we are willing to let it, beautiful things can happen by doing absolutely nothing.

Imagine if you will how he lays her down, naked, with no restraints, no distractions, nothing but a blank ceiling to stare at. His beautiful work of art. Sits down out of her line of sight and takes her in. Watches listens to her breathing, watches her chest rise, and falls. She breathes, eventually stops waiting for something even, slowly her mind goes blank, there is nothing to do, no words, no sounds, there is nothing.

But he is there. And his eyes on her skin, traveling up and down her body, she feels it as a gentle caress perhaps, touching toes and fingers, inch after inch of her skin, touched by nothing but his gaze. His gaze is causing the goosebumps to appear as it travels along her thighs, takes in her belly, her breasts move with her breathing. Perhaps moving a little more rapidly now she feels his eyes cover, claim, possess every inch of her, slowly, but so very sure. She may feel her spine extend in his direction, or a tug at the base, pulled down, grounding her almost. Of course, it Is his mind that makes these things happen, the imperceptible shift in her hips, the way her nipples react to the caress of his gaze, his mind, his will taking possession of every inch of her body. And her mind.

She has let him in and he has taken over. He owns her, all of her holds her in the palm of his proverbial hand. Her every breath and movement are his. And she may even find it hard to move unless he says so. And yet, they have done, are doing nothing. There is no magic here, no tricks. Nothing except a deep connection, a beautiful form, and a feeling of domination and submission. By 'doing’ absolutely nothing. This is the power of the mind, his will. It is the strongest tool a Dom has. This is complete control and complete surrender.

And all by doing 'nothing’.



~M. / Her Liege


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


likeithot19 62M
6061 posts
12/3/2021 6:59 am

Hav e you ever listened to the German group Rammstein? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W3q8Od5qJio&ab_channel=RammsteinOfficial


rosaenaluin 65F
11015 posts
11/24/2021 11:14 am

This piece of writing brought tears to my eyes....

Finally, someone who understands the layers under the layers... from submission to surrender...
Fully, willingly and from out strength.


drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
11/24/2021 8:47 am

Just doing nothing can be so special


ridermantel 68M

11/24/2021 7:45 am

I read this twice. I like it. I like how it unfolds. I find that truth is at the core. Each person must be true to who they are. Each should have no inhibitions and never hold back. There must be boundaries and boundaries should respected. If there is such a melding of truth and passion and a yearning to go beyond each time, then they have well founded trust. Realization, truth, boundaries, trust, love are all part of an endless circle. Each part is dependent on another.


ipsum33 57M

11/24/2021 6:29 am

Great post. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.


likeithot19 62M
6061 posts
11/24/2021 6:16 am

a good read... full of truths


MasterBaldBeaver 67M

11/24/2021 4:55 am

A very erotic "doing nothing".. A lovely thought... excellent!!!


Devilzcharm 64M/64F
198 posts
11/24/2021 4:40 am

We are mostly layers
of violence and tenderness
wrapped and twisted
like bulbs . . some days
we are hyacinths an
some days we are onions.


fuzzy0118 64M  
88 posts
11/24/2021 12:45 am

very lovely



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