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~Devotion I have often wondered and philosophized about why relationships are successful and happy, specifically BDSM relationships. We can all list our kinks, have all of our physical checkboxes ticked properly, and can even enjoy the company of the other. But I have come to believe that often successful relationships transcend the rational mind and float off to some Neverland of emotional and spiritual tranquility that all of us wish for and are get jealous of. The more I have thought about it, the question is what turns me on in terms of mind, body, and spirit? Is it sex; my collected kinks being scratched? Someone, to pick up the groceries? Someone, to pay the bills? Someone that wants to spend time with me? I don’t think it is anyone of those, singularly. I think there is some driving force above all of that, at least for me, that exists that binds all the rest together. Face it, if you are in prison, there are plenty of inmates that would like to spend time with you, and that probably isn’t a good thing at all. What is the glue? What is the chemical binder that keeps us smiling in the toughest times when that special someone is in your life? What holds all the loose ends together to make something as complicated as two people working? For me, it might be devotion. Submissives, generally, had an innate need to show devotion to a Dominant. Their genes tell them to find a receptor of their desire and sometimes that can lead to “sub frenzy” (the need to submit is so strong the submissive makes illogical and often dangerous choices in partner selection). The Dominant has the opposite need. They need to feel the rewards of accepting such vivid and intense devotion and in return, they need to show their devotion for their caring, support, and protection of this most valuable gift of submission. The more intense the devotion of both partners towards each other, the stronger the emotional bonds may be. The longer the devotion continues, the deeper the roots of genuine love go. When one partner no longer strives or feels that devotion, the relationship becomes unbalanced and may ultimately end the relationship unless it is patched by the participants in a sincere manner. Devotion is the lubricant for the relationship. Maybe? I am more aroused when someone is deeply devoted to me. I will return the gesture and go to the ends of the Earth for someone that has that sort of devotion. Rewarded devotion will allow her submission to go unchecked and seek deeper places, where her heart and mind may not have previously traversed. My devotion to her will allow my Dominance to scale new heights in finding ways to make her devotion and gift of submission more rewarding. In BDSM relationships, the sub gives submission and the Dom gives dominance. But they both equally share a secondary gift, that of devotion. And devotion might just be the most valuable and powerful gift in the universe. ~DominantLife  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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I would love to experience the warmth and security that she is feeling 
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I like this.
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love how she's nestled in there like that
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 "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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