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On Service. In this lifestyle, there are as many different kinks as there are shades of color in a rainbow. The challenge in a BDSM bond is to find one’s equal but opposite half of the same coin. I find this task most intriguing, as the temptation for the inexperienced is to jump to a discussion of toys, implements, experiences, types of play, etc. There is a special breed of submissive who is not like many others. She is highly intelligent, wonderfully gifted, and strong, with beautiful features, sensual lines, and sexual talents. Yet - for a girl like this - the yearning may not be for bondage, spankings, and the like. She is motivated by the concept of being of service to her Dominant and fulfilling his every need. Her ultimate motivation is to know she completes him with the total gift of herself. When she strips off the clothes of her busy vanilla existence and immerses herself in him - she never needs to direct or lead. She can relax and be free in the simplicity of serving her man in all ways. This girl can most likely have any Dominant. But given her higher order of need, she seeks the right Dominant to serve - proudly. She desires a man of intellect, creativity, and experience across all facets of BDSM. One who will savor her service as much as he will savor her body. She truly appreciates the dance - on the fringe of darkness. © Fringe of Darkness, 2021  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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What @drmgirl says... A beautiful writing, so true to that special kind of submissive...... This is such a deep need & want, in that type of a submissive. Alas, there are not many dominants, who seek that kind of submissiveness. Or so it seems........
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A breed alone.......
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1/15/2022 7:20 am |
If the way you look at things evolves . . The things you look at and you, will evolve. If you want something you've never had . . Do something you've never done!
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Motivated by the concept of being of service to her Dominant and fulfilling his every need. It's that 'every need' aspect that is so enticing and desirable. Every need certainly covers all the bases. It's all encompassing. Make Women Female Again
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1/15/2022 2:24 am |
I love the insight. The "higher order of need" is so important. It is often neglected.
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The service submissive is a special breed, indeed- in my experience with a nature that tends more often than not to be accompanied by other characteristics that can contribute to an exchange that is particularly deep and ever-present, well-suited to a 24/7 dynamic (reciprocating connection through attention to detail and focus being amongst them). In the context of my exchanges over time it’s not so much that my collar has represented service- it’s been much more than that- but that service (and the mutual appreciation that gives it life) has ever been a part of the context that imbued the collar with meaning from both sides of the exchange.
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Excellent blog entry. I agree and spend a lot of time asking a potential sub what motivates them.
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 "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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