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Anatomy Of A Spanking “I think this paddle gets you there faster.” He’s talking about that stingy fucker. Not the thuddy one I like. The one with the big ouchies. “What do you mean?” “Well, to the point where you feel like you’ve had a spanking.” Hmm. I‘m not sure what to say. It feels…not quite right. I mean, I do have that point—the point of being sated by a spanking, when I feel calm and relaxed. But it’s hard to characterize it as one thing. It’s not when I cry. It’s not when I’m close to a safe word. It’s not when my interest turns to sex—that often creeps in when I still need more spanking. In part, it depends on the type of spanking and the circumstances. But there are a couple of themes. Reconnecting I need maintenance spankings to reconnect. When that connection is the focus, I feel like I’ve “had a spanking” when I stop fighting it and give myself over to what my partner chooses. Sometimes that is easier or harder for me. If we’ve had a disconnect, it will be harder for me to let go. Even if I want to. But to feel sated by it, I have to give myself over. I have to reach a point where I no longer think about how many more swats or if/when it will turn to sex. I just feel open and accept what is chosen for me. Quieting my Mind My brain almost never slows down, even when I want it to. I am over his knee, and my brain is still chugging away at how a theory maps onto a problem at work. Or I’m thinking about whether I remembered to enroll my in dance class, or how I’m going to keep my from destroying more of my house. But at some point, in a spanking, my mind goes quiet. I no longer feel the to-do list looping through the back of my brain. I am at peace and truly present in the moment. And the thing is, neither of these things comes from the amount of pain. Maybe if the point is to remind me that I am a girl who gets spanked, then submitting to the pain would be a way to get there quickly. Stingy paddles, the accursed riding crop… But that does not sate me. I could have a spanking like that and still feel like I need a spanking. What sates that need is being spanked to the point where my mind goes quiet and/or I give myself over to my partner. If a spanking does that, I will be walking on clouds for days. But there’s no easy formula for getting there. It’s not an implement or a duration or an intensity; it is something we have to discover together. ~cherishedproperty "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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loved reading this, and the photo is just a treat to behold, lovely
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3/23/2022 8:32 am |
If her eyes are the mirror to her soul . . Her shapely bottom is the seat of learning.
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So calming.....
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Now that's a great photo ,nothing like nice red ass.
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"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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