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aliljaded 53F
23780 posts
7/22/2022 8:28 pm
Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Kink can be practiced while being involved in different "relationships. "These may include playing together with a friend (or even acquittance), as a service (paying a Mistress for her services, for example), with a stranger (at a party or club), or with your loving partner. At Bedroom Bondage, we are all about exploring kink as a couple, so that is what I’ll be writing about.

Trust & safety
There’s a good reason that I started out with this one. Nothing is more important than being able to put your full trust in your partner, and it is such a beautiful thing when you can. You know each other well, and should not have to worry about your play time turning into a bad experience because, for example, your partner does not respect your boundaries. A lot of people seem to think that it is all about being beaten up and tortured, but the ones that know better are very aware that there is a fine line between pleasure and pain. Domination and submission are always a matter of consent.

Being able to completely give yourself to your lover is an incredibly sexy, freeing feeling! When your man has all the control over your body, you will be very aware of every little bit of it, enhancing all sensations.

Feeling comfortable
Believe me, the more comfortable you feel with your partner, the sexier you’ll feel, and the hotter it’ll get! You’ll be way more relaxed about revealing your deepest, darkest desires… Who knows what kind of dirty wishes the two of you share without even realizing it?

Aftercare
Something that should never be missing. When the submissive is totally exhausted, loving care from her Master is the cherry on an already delicious cake. It simply makes the whole experience even better, when he drapes a soft blanket over you, brings you something to drink (I always seem to be up for a big glass of juice or water myself after such intense hours), and gives you a nice massage… I honestly couldn’t say what would be better than to be softly kissed, ‘I love you’ being whispered in my ear, and sweetly fall asleep after this kinky, sexy intimate moment together.

When you take good care of your submissive, she’ll take good care of you, too. That’s exactly what it’s all about. Not just for the submissive to take care of her Master, but to take care of each other.

~dominantlife


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


Devilzcharm 64M/64F
198 posts
7/23/2022 2:20 pm

A meaningful relationship
isn't between two people
that share the same interests.
It's between two people who
share the same priorities. If
you share the same priorities
you only need one other thing,
timing.


NuclearRenegadee 63M
123 posts
7/23/2022 11:58 am


drmgirl622 68F  
26117 posts
7/23/2022 7:37 am

Commitment makes all the difference......


Tckg12 69M
2503 posts
7/23/2022 5:28 am

oh you are so right!! love does make kink so much better cause the emotions run higher i think


ridermantel 68M

7/23/2022 4:50 am

What is there to life without love?


rondiri 65M
11182 posts
7/22/2022 8:37 pm

yup, casual hookups, might have more "thrill" factor because of the danger, but knowing each other and knowing what will make it better for each other trumps the hookup "thrill" factor for me.


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
7/22/2022 8:33 pm

I agree, wholeheartedly

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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