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The Power Of Pain... By any standard pain is powerful, but for a masochist, it is even more potent. Pain can unlock the mind, or shut it down. For a masochist, it can quiet the loudest of thoughts, and leave in their place the echoes of affection. Sadness, for most, will mean that they need to be held until the tears stop. When other women are angry, they may need space to cool off. Perhaps when they are frustrated, they need time to think and work through the problem. But that isn’t what I need. I need pain. For a masochist, for me, pain can heal. Do I want to be held? Yes, of course. I need to feel the firm pressure of your arms around me, and your soft words whispered in my ear. I need you to hold me and tell me that it will be okay, to talk me back to reason, and remind me that this too shall pass. But first, I need you to pull me over your knee and warm my skin with the touch of your palm. I need you to coil your hand around my neck until my sorrows fade to black. To tie me down and multiply my tears until there are none left to be cried. I need you to drown out my inner monolog with the floods of pain. Not because I’ve been bad, not because I shouldn’t be sad, not because you don’t want to hold me, but because you know that your hand on my skin is affection. Because you understand that the lingering heat, the sharp sting, and the aching marks your hand leaves in its wake, still my mind. They remind me that despite the storm, I am yours. Because you know that the pain tells me that I am loved, and some days the voice of pain is the only one I hear. ~pleasurewhore. *Achieve  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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8/17/2022 9:36 pm |
You said this exactly how I wish I could have said it. I feel like the pain for me to just let out all my inner thoughts and the pain allows me to release the feelings I've been feeling for a week. I love the pain because it reduces my stress level. Thank you for writing this blog.
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Thank you for posting this!! I am here literally in tears, because I cannot believe that someone put into words that which I could never fully express. Yet it is never a one way street. (To a Sadist) We/we are a mirror You and I, sometimes I see the weight of the world on Your shoulders and I see your need to give pain. How can I not offer myself as Your canvas. When it is over, untie me, lay me in your arms clouded in Your affection until I open my eyes and smile. That same love that gives me pain when I need it, is the same love when He needs to give pain. That is the unspoken bond.
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rider, For me, it is pure love,   "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Yes, Within my personal preferences, ofcourse. Whips, belt, edgeplay, are my way to travel the road from deep, intens physical sensations, ( i dont like to use to word; pain, because in the vanilla world, it has a bad vibe about it.) Do give me "pain" to shut my mind down, to appease my soul, so i can finally totally relax, let go, and make me love you even deeper then before. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Sending this to my slave. She has been through the ringer lately, but since she wasn't with me, there was little I could do to comfort her. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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ali As J said, it is hard ro explain how physical pain can be an aphrodisiac and a relief!  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Good post M. Pain has its place, but in my view it should be within a larger framework focused on pleasure. I prefer to have a woman be a pleasure slave and incorporate a moderate amount of pain into a phallic-centered alternative to sadism and masochism or Gorean play. Odalisque, Odalisque Chapter 2 "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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The pain serves to heal the soul and awaken the senses. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I understand that so well. It can be addictive. Thank you for sharing your experience, J. Hugs & Kisses ~M "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Are we not all but one seeking our own satisfaction through what means that supplies it "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Pain is but the threshold through which she passes, in her journey, to that place where he holds her soul in the palm of his hands. It isn't the pain, or the journey she seeks . . But the intimacy in the palm of his hands. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Is pain a vicious circle for the masochist or one of love? "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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rider, For me, it is pure love,
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8/10/2022 2:53 pm |
ali As J said, it is hard ro explain how physical pain can be an aphrodisiac and a relief!
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8/10/2022 12:55 pm |
Yes, Within my personal preferences, ofcourse. Whips, belt, edgeplay, are my way to travel the road from deep, intens physical sensations, ( i dont like to use to word; pain, because in the vanilla world, it has a bad vibe about it.) Do give me "pain" to shut my mind down, to appease my soul, so i can finally totally relax, let go, and make me love you even deeper then before.
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Sending this to my slave. She has been through the ringer lately, but since she wasn't with me, there was little I could do to comfort her.
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ali As J said, it is hard ro explain how physical pain can be an aphrodisiac and a relief! A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Good post M. Pain has its place, but in my view it should be within a larger framework focused on pleasure. I prefer to have a woman be a pleasure slave and incorporate a moderate amount of pain into a phallic-centered alternative to sadism and masochism or Gorean play. Odalisque, Odalisque Chapter 2
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The pain serves to heal the soul and awaken the senses.
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exactly it’s all luv taps!
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 Slave rick
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Are we not all but one seeking our own satisfaction through what means that supplies it
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8/10/2022 4:01 am |
Pain is but the threshold through which she passes, in her journey, to that place where he holds her soul in the palm of his hands. It isn't the pain, or the journey she seeks . . But the intimacy in the palm of his hands.
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8/10/2022 3:35 am |
Is pain a vicious circle for the masochist or one of love?
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This! "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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