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So, you want to be a Dominant? So, you’ve sat down and watched Fifty Shades of Grey, and now you think, “yeah, I could do that. I could be a Dominant like that and tell a girl what to do. It’ll be awesome.” You’ve dusted off your suit and tie and readied your spanking hand. That’s wonderful. Congratulations. But are you sure you’re ready? You are? Oh, even better! Quick question though: Are you sure? Are you sure you’re ready to never send another picture of your genitals to another person ever again without consent? Because that’s what being a Dominant is. That’s what being a good person is. It’s about respect. It’s about honoring other humans. There’s a piece of Biblical canon that speaks about “dying to self.” You’re sure you’re ready to do that? Because that’s one of the biggest parts of being a Dominant. Yes, you hold the reins. Yes, you’re in charge. But that girl you’re in charge of, that leans on you and depends on you? You’ve become their world, their stability. Their rock and their stay and their shelter in the storm. Are you ready for that? Are you ready to exhibit self-control? Because your submissive is not your stress release or your punching bag or your side of beef a-la Rocky. Your submissive may say no. She may use her safe word. Are you ready to stop on a dime and devote all your attention to her physical and mental health at that moment? Are you ready for hard work? Yes, she is your submissive, your slave, your property, your toy, your muse, your sin, and your salvation. But she is not your fix-it, your magic spell to make everything good for you while you rest on your laurels. She is working as much as you are working for her. Are you ready to earn that title you’re so quick to claim? Are you ready to show her what a Sir, a Daddy, or a Master is worth? Are you ready to earn her submission? Are you ready to do what it will take to reach a place where an intimate piece of another person’s existence and psyche rests tenderly in your outstretched palm? Are you ready? Are you sure? ~thetriskeliondiaries  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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Love the photo..
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magnifique photo, sublime et parfaite femme, j'adore ta beautée, kiss from France
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good post, thanks. Touches several thoughts I've had.
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… beautifully expressed.
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Truth Kink is easy to find, it is the depth of the lifestyle that remains elusive. Thank you for a well written piece.
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Lmao!...50 shades of grey is a vanillaized hollywood version of bdsm that’s no where near reality of a real D/s bdsm relationship but a good post none the less the symbiotic bond of D/s is complex very involved on both partys!
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I agree. Well put
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Some are, some never will be... desires, realities, and illusions make up life. One needs to be in control of their self before they can be in control of another. Happy full moon!
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hi
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well written . but why do most of these writings assume the sub is female? this should apply to Domme or Mistresses as well.
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It could not have been put better.......great piece of writing
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Very well said and put! absolutely must always respect as a "Lady". Her desires and needs always come first!
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well said
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Nice post.
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Excellent piece. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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