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No Such Thing as Vanilla He’s moving slowly inside me. One of his hands holds one of mine. His whole body presses against me, rocking back and forth slowly. His lips are on my ear. “You won’t come again for a long, long time.” I nod my acceptance softly as he sweeps my hair out of my eyes. He kisses my temple. “You’re mine.” “Yes, Sir.” He maintains his slow pace. It’s soft and sweet. Even so, I’m excruciatingly close to orgasm. An orgasm he won’t allow me. If you took away his words, this sex would look so vanilla. There are no cuffs or chains or clamps. He’s not pounding into me. He’s not even fucking my ass as he often does. There was a time when sex like this would make my skin crawl. The slowness and the sweetness made me restless, and I wanted it over as soon as possible. Vanilla sex was never that great at holding my attention. I needed more. I needed hair pulling and nails digging into my hips and primal fucking. Or at least, I thought I did. What I really needed was ownership—the mental calm that comes from being controlled by someone who craves my obedience. And here, I feel his ownership in every single moment. I know that I am a girl who doesn’t get to choose. I don’t choose when he fucks me or how, or whether I will be allowed release. I don’t even think about it. I just do what he chooses for me to do and feel what he chooses for me to feel. That’s it. At this moment, his slowness and sweetness feel deliberate and controlled. They are part of his control over me. And I find myself needing it—needing his soft kisses and caresses and his slow rocking back and forth inside me. Every touch feels like a reminder that I am his. He gives me a soft shhhh as I begin to whimper. “I know little one. I know it’s hard, but you’re so beautiful when you struggle for me. You’re such a good girl. The best girl.” He kisses my neck as he keeps a steady rhythm inside me. I am calm and present at this moment with him. It doesn’t feel vanilla to me at all. I’m not even sure that’s possible when he is him and I am me. Owner and property. I am his in all ways, even the soft and sweet ones. There’s nothing vanilla about that. *Unknown  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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When lifestyle is life and it’s organic the exchange is ever-present and its notes easily pervade every moment, unbroken, for years on end. You wake to its tones, slip into sleep to them, take or are taken to them, shop to them, endure challenges and support each other to them- there’s this humming resonance that colors, well, everything. I have memories of moments of exchange in a freezer aisle at the grocery store that are as vivid as any involving OTK or a bench. Thank you for sharing.  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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For some, "vanilla" is just a flavor of ice cream. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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This is such a lovely exquisite truth. Thanks for sharing. You're welcome. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Extremely sensual. Love it "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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It's all about knowing who you really are..... "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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When lifestyle is life and it’s organic the exchange is ever-present and its notes easily pervade every moment, unbroken, for years on end. You wake to its tones, slip into sleep to them, take or are taken to them, shop to them, endure challenges and support each other to them- there’s this humming resonance that colors, well, everything. I have memories of moments of exchange in a freezer aisle at the grocery store that are as vivid as any involving OTK or a bench. Thank you for sharing.
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For some, "vanilla" is just a flavor of ice cream.
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The traditional male/female dynamic was never truly Vanilla. In tradition, if the female was subordinate to the male is that vanilla? I think not. She cooks. She wants to please him. Been going on for centuries.
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This is such a lovely exquisite truth. Thanks for sharing. .-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-. "I hate mankind, for I think myself one of the best of them, and I know how bad I am." - Joseph Baretti   
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Extremely sensual. Love it
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I am sure you are worth "owning". "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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It's all about knowing who you really are.....
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This is all very true and why the mental aspect is the most important. It is alos why I dislike subs reciting a list of thier wants. It does not make sense your only want should be to be owned/belong possessed
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Hello, thank for this very exciting story Best regards.
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I agree> It is not all about rough and tumble. It is about needs... being met
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I absolutely love this piece. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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