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aliljaded 53F
23941 posts
12/20/2022 2:40 am
Life Is Short

It is an ironic and cruel joke that as we figure out who we are, as we find our people, as we become more secure in ourselves and them, we also become closer to death.

I am a submissive, and sometimes it feels like time will run out before I know fully what that means.

So much of what we are is about hope and drive, even if what we are hoping for and driving toward never happens.

The point is the journey, not the destination.

So every second is a call to action. To take care of our minds and bodies and hearts so that we can prolong it. To be and do as much as we can in the short time we have. To love fiercely and deeply. To be good to other people and help them along in their journey too.

To change the world into a better, kinder, more equitable place. Because regardless of what anyone says or does, this world belongs to all of us… and we belong in it.

To learn from our mistakes, and try to cause as little harm to others as possible. To figure out who we are so that we can be them, and to remember that who we are isn’t stagnant, so the change shouldn’t stop until the end.

I do not believe in the afterlife, at least not the kind where I continue to be me. So I think we need to make this life matter because it is all we’ve got.

To grow and help others grow. That is how I make my life matter.

Life is short.

Make the most of it. For yourself AND others.

~goodgirlsdoresearch


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


Luv2Sspnk 66M
2 posts
12/23/2022 12:49 pm

This is unbelievably true!!! I wrote a somewhat lengthy comment, but probably posted it in the wrong place. But the main idea was ---- wish I knew in my 20's what I know now!!! Wish I could go back and redo all the decisions I made in my youth... I was too busy trying to please other people --- people who were not really worth pleasing and not pleasing myself.. I never want to hurt or upset anyone --- I just wish I would have understood what would have made me happy instead of worrying about making other people happy. YOU CAN'T MAKE OTHER PEOPLE HAPPY UNLESS YOU ARE HAPPY FIRST!!!!!


ExNameForUse 54F
5767 posts
12/22/2022 2:14 am

It is short. And most of us will figure that out when there not much time left.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7021 posts
12/21/2022 8:19 pm

    Quoting aliljaded:
    I can totally relate to this piece.
I can relate to it, the trick is to respond to it, especially the part about learning from my mistakes. I make a lot of those.


uncommon1 66M  
1474 posts
12/21/2022 7:30 pm

The length of your life
shouldn't be the measure
of you. . .
Impermanence is the
cornerstone of Buddhist
teachings and practice.
All that exists is impermanent;
nothing lasts. Therefore
nothing can be grasped or
held onto. When we don’t
fully appreciate this simple
but profound truth, we suffer.
The lion's roar is but a speck
in time but it's intensity expresses
all he has in him . .
Be the lion's roar M.


jenny14 75T  
90467 posts
12/21/2022 5:05 pm

ali

This is so beautiful and so true! We must make the most of what time we have!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


drmgirl622 68F  
26184 posts
12/21/2022 7:36 am

Enjoy every minute......


rydermantel 69M
25928 posts
12/20/2022 2:47 am

Life is short. You will get no argument from me.


aliljaded 53F
8966 posts
12/20/2022 2:44 am

I can totally relate to this piece.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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