Blog : Predicaments - A Personal Favorite

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2/20/2023 4:14 am

Predicaments - A Personal Favorite

Dom’s love to challenge their subs and predicaments are a personal favorite of mine. There can be a win/win, lose/lose, or simply a challenge that must be accomplished successfully depending on my emotional state and the mood of the moment. Regardless of the particulars of the predicament, one of my favorites involves manipulation and control of her orgasm.

Using the picture above as an example, the simplest challenge is the timed orgasm, instructing her to make me come within a certain period of time, or conversely to pleasure me without making me cum for a prolonged minimum period. But what really gets me going is simultaneously manipulating her pleasure and orgasm while she pleasures me, not permitting her to cum before she makes me cum, and so forth.

The real dastardly one is when I instruct her to pleasure me with her mouth while I take control of her arousal and consequent orgasm with the following conditions:

1) If she comes first, she will be spanked roundly

2) If I cum first, she doesn’t get to cum at all

3) If we come together, everyone goes home a winner

Oh the fun that I have teasing and pleasing her to the edge of orgasm, increasing the intensity of my efforts, threatening to push her over the edge as she moans and audibly pleads while sucking me hungrily, desperately trying to match my pace orgasm to her needs for immediate release. Anything to avoid the threatened spanking. Or conversely, I love to watch her grind desperately against my hand while I moan and writhe indicating the nearness of my own release as she tries to achieve her orgasm and not be left out in the cold. Naturally, of course, I am relentless in manipulating this to my advantage. She would expect nothing less. Sometimes I want her to win, sometimes I want her to lose, and at others, I simply want the joy of coming together in a mind-shattering mutual orgasm.

Oh, the games we play and the fun we have. Predicaments are intended to have desired outcomes and yet often yield interesting and enjoyable surprises. The times when she comes first result in the dreaded spanking only to find that the spanking itself yields still more intense and repeated orgasms in her intensely aroused state. This may seem counter to my desires to punish as a Dom but rest assured that I still get mine, taking her from behind and spanking her ass as she simultaneously pleads for mercy and more.

Ah, the games, the rules, the predicaments, the punishments, the rewards. Such a confusing game where winners can lose and losers can end up the ultimate victor. So difficult to tell one from the other at times. Ultimately though everyone wins in a game where we play our assigned and desired roles of Dom and sub to the hilt.

Predicaments; the challenged and the challenger. You may think you are destined to lose in a game that is clearly rigged, but I promise you, the spoils of victory are shared equally and with enthusiasm. No one goes home disappointed.

Let the games begin!

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Dreamcatcher__ 87M

7021 posts
2/20/2023 7:06 pm

This really captures the essence of what D/s should be all about.

Sophie105 64F

209 posts
2/20/2023 1:50 pm

Mind games can be so exhausting.

uncommon1 66M

1474 posts
2/20/2023 8:39 am

It serves you
right for putting
all your eggs in
one bastard.

ilikepot 50M

62 posts
2/20/2023 6:02 am

Ha! I love playing that game as well!
I particularly like using out a timer/stopwatch to add a little time pressure to keep my partner off their game, and gives me the opportunity to introduce penalties to further keep them off balance.