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The Quieting. Dominance and submission aren’t a job. There may be times when it seems like a task-based system of performance and reward, but that’s just a small part of it. My reality is that D/s is a labor of love. That said, I don’t serve simply for his pleasure, although his pleasure is certainly my greatest reward. In some regards, I’m very much an altruist, yet I seek something from him in return for my service. I seek the quieting. I can get a beating from my favorite tops. I can negotiate an impact scene from a trusted sadist to get what I need from a physical perspective. They can get me to subspace, but can’t quiet me. Quieting comes from Him. When chaos reigns in my mind, when my world is tilting off its axis, it is the quieting I need. The exchange of power in our dynamic hinges on this one key concept. My service. My submission. My surrender. I offer it all in exchange for just one thing. The Quieting. *Unknown  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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That rings so very clearly. It’s one of the things that issues from the sanctuary of the exchange. When my girl would say “I want to get out of my head” I knew that it was just that quiet she sought. It’s interesting- there’s a complementary quiet that only comes from inhabiting that place for me in the acceptance of trust and surrender that’s evolved, in time, beyond the need for questioning. That’s why, in my mind, that sanctuary has no door- only the character of an embrace. That kind of surrender and its rightful acceptance- center-held, beyond language and blissfully still- is spun from a purity of will and intent.
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That quieting is a skill that comes naturally for me. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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There is a place beyond the physicality or the spirituality of sub space. A nurtured soul, is quiet.
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wow... powerful
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 "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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She always quiets my mind.....
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