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aliljaded 53F
23823 posts
4/18/2023 3:37 am
Like A Friend

She wondered whether there would ever come an hour in her life when she didn’t think of him; didn’t speak to him in her head, didn’t relive every moment they’d been together, didn’t long for his voice and his hands, and his love. She had never dreamed of what it would feel like to love someone so much; of all the things that had astonished her in her adventures, that was what astonished her the most. She thought the tenderness it left in her heart was like a bruise that would never go away, but she would cherish it forever.

~Philip Pullman, from ‘The Amber Spyglass’

Two weeks ago I lost one of my best friends to pancreatic cancer. He found out he had it, and three weeks later he was gone. I met him here, and I wanted to tell you all that you can meet truly amazing people on this site. He was proof of that. I will miss him terribly. Please forgive me in advance if it bleeds into my blog.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


rosaenaluin 65F
11049 posts
4/19/2023 11:09 am

Oh, i am soo sorry for your loss.
It is only natural, when things like this, comes back in your blogs.
Dont apologise, no need for that.
Just talk, to him, he will be around, heal in your own time... for this loss


JohnnyLightning 65M  
9685 posts
4/19/2023 10:15 am

I'm sorry for your loss.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


EvolvedEdge 57M
306 posts
4/18/2023 9:47 pm

I’m so sorry for your loss, M. … sending love and hugs.


Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
4/18/2023 1:17 pm

So sorry to hear of your loss.
Cherish the memories.

No need to apologise if it effects your blog.
Just the natural way of things.


rondiri 65M
11185 posts
4/18/2023 12:50 pm

My sincerest sympathies.


uncommon1 66M  
1449 posts
4/18/2023 6:35 am

The people here who care
about you, suffer with you
and accept you in your blog.
Many of us know this pain
how hard every step, every
breath can be. Grieving
doesn't make you imperfect,
quite the contrary.


likeithot19 62M
6085 posts
4/18/2023 6:28 am

Cherish the time spent.
Remember the lessons learned
Close you eyes and revisit the smiles shared


drmgirl622 68F  
26134 posts
4/18/2023 6:15 am

Oh, M, I am so sorry that your dear friend has moved on. May the memories warm your heart on sleepless nights.


Plzrmeister 67M  
10479 posts
4/18/2023 5:28 am

As our signature notes, the bell tolls for all of us.

Our condolences.

Make Women Female Again


Artschoolgrad 47M
8754 posts
4/18/2023 5:15 am

Sorry for your loss. Pancreatic cancer is terrible and fast. Let's remember to enjoy every day we have.


ExNameForUse 53F
5764 posts
4/18/2023 4:53 am

I am sorry for your loss, M. Sending warm hugs your way


GothEis 55M
3133 posts
4/18/2023 4:27 am


aliljaded 53F
8949 posts
4/18/2023 4:18 am

    Quoting lighthouse4297:
    I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!! Just talk to him he's still with you. He will never leave your side. And what he gave you was always there, You just didn't realize it. He shined the light on it that has and always be there my dearest closet friend. XOXOX L
Thank you, L. For holding me up, when I feel like I can't stand this anymore. I love you, too. XOXO

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


lighthouse4297 56F
1680 posts
4/18/2023 4:06 am

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!! Just talk to him he's still with you. He will never leave your side. And what he gave you was always there, You just didn't realize it. He shined the light on it that has and always be there my dearest closet friend. XOXOX L


aliljaded 53F
8949 posts
4/18/2023 3:47 am

“Death brings with it a duty and devotion that cannot be explained to those who don't know it.”

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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