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The Sex Before The Sex I like to be penetrated long before any physical contact takes place. In fact, I need to be. Witty banter, teasing, verbal double entendres—all foreplay for me. The art of great foreplay is a hint of what’s to come, without spilling everything. It’s the desire mixed with the uncertainty of whether it will really happen or how. Who will bring the other person to wetness or hardness first? Who will be so overcome with desire that they tackle the other person when they get in the door? In Tantra, we talk a lot about expanding the moment of orgasm. Instead of orgasm being a few moments of intense, pelvic contractions, we aim for orgasms that last for hours. The feelings of bliss, the pulsing and throbbing, the hunger you feel, can go on for hours and days. In fact, it never really has to stop. Think of foreplay, between-play and simmer in the same way: they ought to go on for a long, long time. They never really have to stop, either. You want to keep the sexual energy flowing between you all of the time. That doesn’t mean you have to have sex every time you rev your engines. The whole point is to rev your engines and keep them hot. Or at least warm. You ought to have some kind of flirty, sexy touch and innuendo going on every day. The sex before the sex.~ ~Kim Anami  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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That was never my way. Each session was like a very cold business transaction. That was what she needed. Emotions would come to the surface. Love and sex would come during the spontaneity of the passions that were heightened.
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so good! i love when she blushes in company : )
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You can't have to much foreplay.....just a simple blindfold and a few whispers in your partners ear about what you are going to do or have them do goes a long way.....  
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the flirtation is exciting too
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The intimacy of foreplay cannot be dismissed......
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foreplay is like driving up and around an area checking out all the perimeters learning and admiring the lay of the land...
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Very provocative! Thanks!
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stimulate the mind & the body will follow
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Beautiful assessment! Foreplay is so underrated
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well, some men like to be hunted as well, but yeah, either way, eternal foreplay
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So Hot. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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