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doingitall4yu 66M
321 posts
7/21/2020 11:52 pm

I have met 4 people from this site, but I have enjoyed incredibly sexy email exchanges with many, many more! I have had sex with three of the four, anal & oral with three of the four. I enjoyed the experiences & hope to do it again! I would love to hear about your encounters, especially with the woman! You are submissive, correct? Very interesting story you have to tell! BTW: you have the cutest little bare butt! It is adorable! Long may you blog!

Serve me!! It is what you crave! jdxafn at hot....


rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
7/22/2020 1:28 am

Alt is i think, more USA, oriented.
I had some mail contact, but after one or two message exchange it is clear, all they want is kinky fuckery - when they want it- how they want it.

The shopping list "doms".
The _do me_ doms.
They seek a fetish dispenser, never a real person, with witch they have to interact, on a human level.

I even believe, they are not any more capable of doing so….
They are SOOO stuck "in their role"... Dont know anymore, how to behave as a human, in a interaction with a submissive person.
Scary shit!

That one contact, was also a play / bedroom dom, this one, had also interest in mé, as a person.
So, we had one scene and then he gaslighted me... ignored all messages..
Was totally out of communication.
Just an other emotional wrack


rosaenaluin 65F
11002 posts
7/22/2020 1:31 am

Oh, i am not here, for some kinky play, only.
I want and need the Power/ Authority Transfer, connection first.

Without thát, there is no trust and safety.
Just a sexual game, until orgasm.


TyTightly_ 64M
2 posts
7/22/2020 1:32 am

I have met many , many people from this site . A lot I still have as friends. I would estimate probably 200 hundred over the 16 years or so. I enjoy meeting lots of people and have been first BDSM community contact for more than a few. Two of those meetings have resulted in BDSM and sexual relationships , the one of those lasting over 8 years , so far .


janey_robbins 65T  
285 posts
7/22/2020 3:01 am

I've met quite a few people from here and done perverted things with most of them Best of all I met Master Randy, his wife Lady L and my wonderful Mistress Kay because of being on alt


Aislin 39F  
8605 posts
7/22/2020 3:45 am

I just met scottfree2016 yesterday so yeah, several for me also having to travel all the way to Norway. I am indeed a Meet and Play Whore. But I do not have sex with them.

best wishes, have fun and play safe.


I am aroused by my own darkness and there is no cure.


brandygirasol 54T
9425 posts
7/22/2020 5:06 am

Yes I have met many men from this site- mostly long term relationships- some one time flings..... I learned early on to cut thru the BS like men not reading profiles before hitting on me- nonsense with some guys afraid to talk on the phone and get aquainted- inexperianced confused LOSERS unsure about what they want I dont waste time with- because they will infect my own positive attitude and bring me down if I allow it .... Never am I on here looking for a new stranger to hook up with every week I dont operate that way ONLY people who never hook up imagine those of us who do date operate like that


gafferh 68M
308 posts
7/22/2020 5:09 am

Have chatted with quite a few and met a few of them. I've enjoyed sex with a couple.


MissJasline 61T
84 posts
7/22/2020 6:12 am

I've put 2-4 but can't remember exactly how many and from which sites specifically. I've been on the scene now for over 20 years and used a number of sites where I've met people (InformedConsent, Collarme, etc).

The meets have been a mix of men and women, Dom and sub, sexual and S/M play. As the saying goes, variety is the spice of life.

P.S. Don't agree with the comments that this site is mainly USA. I'm UK.

Curved Air: You, you're only what you think you might be, I am only what you think I am


drmgirl622 68F  
26049 posts
7/22/2020 6:26 am

I have one friend I spend girls night with every week plus one that visits annually for laughs and relaxation.......there are quite a few others that i speak with by phone.


_M2_ 54M

7/22/2020 6:30 am

I have met a few from Alt. One turned out to be sexual and she lived with me for a period of time. The others were became good friends with no sexual contact.


BostonBoi 55M
17245 posts
7/22/2020 7:01 am

I've met 6 people in person over my on-again/off-again time on this site. Each and every one of them was so very nice. Only one was for a relationship. The rest were just visiting Boston for one reason or another and we met up so I could play tour guide.

I've had many off-site relationships form with people I've met blogging...email, camera, text, social media, etc. Lots of great people here if one can get through all the proliferating fakes.

"In a time of universal deceit - telling the truth is a revolutionary act."
---George Orwell


Kitkatshadow 57F

7/22/2020 7:37 am

I met a Dom from this site who lives in England, he came to South Africa for 4 months to visit with me, but things went south lol


JoElspanstp 70M

7/22/2020 9:36 am

    Quoting Kitkatshadow:
    I met a Dom from this site who lives in England, he came to South Africa for 4 months to visit with me, but things went south lol
He went to Antarctica?


Humiliatingwomen 66M
7 posts
7/22/2020 10:18 am

I have been on alt for 10+ years. I have met several and spoken to literally hundreds. Of those I have met I have had 1 long term relationship (5+years) and met most of the others more than once. Only 1 has been a platonic meet. I'm only interested in real meets and of the hundreds I have chatted to at least 95% have been complete time wasters. The alt concept is very good, but the time wasters and wannabees sadly make it very difficult to connect with people on this site.


iwill44 42M
121 posts
7/22/2020 11:21 am

i been looking for a beautiful LT Women to serve for the rest of my life . still can not find committed to it


protection192 69M  
456 posts
7/22/2020 12:08 pm

I feel that if you are a single guy your chances on meeting any one is nill to none


Kitkatshadow 57F

7/22/2020 12:15 pm

No, i kicked his ass back to England, what a disaster it was


1uncommondom 77M

7/22/2020 1:48 pm

I think the more interesting poll would be how many we've met from this site compared to other sites and the amount of time given. While I've met substantially more people from Alt and I find the quality of the meetings comparable to Fetlife and Collarspace people but the amount of time I spend on Alt is comparatively more as well. I met several people from Adult friend finders and they were all fake.
I was also part of the underground BDSM scenes in N.Y., Harrisburg and Baltimore and a lot of those folks are on Alt and FL.


JoElspanstp 70M

7/22/2020 1:51 pm

    Quoting Kitkatshadow:
    No, i kicked his ass back to England, what a disaster it was
He left High and Dry?


lighthouse4297 56F
1680 posts
7/22/2020 7:57 pm

Hello, Yes I have met people in person from this site. Smiles L


sidvicious13 61M
138 posts
7/22/2020 8:09 pm

I have met more than five people from Alt, but no one in recent years. I have been on Alt since 2001, under a few different names. In the first six years that I was on Alt, I met a few people, but nobody in the past eight years. But then, there used to be a lot more people on Alt. I truly believe that if Alt management were to get rid of every fake profile, every scammer, and every profile that has not logged on in the past three years, there would be maybe four or five dozen real live women on this site.


slaveRam4MsM 42M
178 posts
7/23/2020 10:25 am

Here lot of fake profile..


Dwtp 60M
27 posts
7/23/2020 11:53 pm

Seems there is no one in my area, with my interests.


IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1544 posts
7/24/2020 9:54 am

I have met several people on this site over the years. More years ago than now regrettably. But still meet someone every now and then. In fact I met my submissive wife on this site about 20 years ago. So anything is possible.



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