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Miner1980Brown1 62F
97 posts
5/25/2017 8:11 pm
Insanity is basically a playground
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Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7021 posts
11/16/2017 6:19 pm

 This sucks on several levels, Miner, especially compounded by your having no memories. I just started reading a book written by a 13 year-old autistic Japanese boy about his world as seen from inside his head. It was translated by the brilliant novelist writer of Cloud Atlas, David Mitchell and his wife, who have an autistic son. You are likely already aware of it but, just in case, I thought I should recommend it because it may bring you some comfort. It may be that your son has both more and fewer complications than this boy, Naoki Higashida, whose small, very readable book is entitled "The Reason I Jump," but I at least found it enlightening, and that, in the end, is not something to disregard.

I wish you and your son good luck in finding your way closer to each other.

namaste~

Dreamcatcher


Miner1980Brown1 replies on 11/16/2017 7:44 pm:
Thank you for reading and writing to me. I had not heard of this young man's book. I will need to check it out.

Our society already ignores too much of our citizens with these type of psychosis. SSDI helps some and being able to keep him on my insurance helps. Having a friend who monitors him for us is more than I could ever have asked for. He has helped to get my son stabilized to where my son is able to work a part-time job. What he receives and makes would never be able to support him in the real world. We have been truly fortunate. The help I have received for him.

Then there is the kindness and graciousness of Dominant Gentlemen helping to guide and teach me so that I have been kept safe on my journey in this realm.

Thank you for you kind words too.

Miner

maletramp 64M
2095 posts
12/26/2017 1:00 pm

 I've just recently been learning of the Austism Spectrum Disorder, and how there is a fluctuation of where on the spectrum one might be, even at any given moment.. I have no words of wisdom or comfort, really.. I greatly sympathize with your situation and admire you tremendously for the journey you are on.. Some believe that we are only burdened with the struggles that we can endure, in which case you humble me for the amazing strength you have exhibited in life.. Never feel any benefit you receive in life was unearned; you are more than deserving.. Thank you, so much, for sharing your story.. There's nothing I enjoy more than seeing the dignity with which such remarkable people live their lives..


Miner1980Brown1 replies on 12/27/2017 6:34 pm:
Good evening!

Thank you so much for your kind words.

It has not been an easy life for him, my family, friends, co-workers and/or myself. We still have more than most. We have been blessed in many ways. He shares his in words, knowing how to behave when needed and knowing he will always have a safe place to be. He has a friend who helps him so that he is able to work part-time. He gets bored easily because he needs to be challenged in learning something new once he has learned something. He enjoys cooking, BBQ'ing, and baking and is quite good. He found an old recipe box of his great-grandmother's that he uses for baking peanut butter cookies. Of course, playing games online. I always enjoyed watching him play Zelda. He also would sing in the shower. He has a very good voice. At age 2, his first words to me were, "Mommy, please don't sing." OUCH!!!!

I believe the hardest thing for me is him not liking to be touched. I do not know how hard it is on a father with their child, for me I miss the hugs of when he would run up and give them so beautifully. I miss hearing from my only child, "I love you, mom." It is just like with submission, you cannot force someone into submission. They have to be willingly and freely needing, wanting and desiring to give themselves completely.

Have a wonderful evening!

Have a Beautiful and Happy New Year!

Take care.

DancingDom 74M
22600 posts
9/11/2018 8:01 pm

 I don't know how I missed this post. Gosh how i have to appreciate how you have tried to be a good Mothers..which is a hard job no matter what. Keep being a good mom no matter how hard it is for the both of you. Keep communicating. Sending out good vibrations for the both of you.
"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Miner1980Brown1 replies on 9/12/2018 7:38 pm:
Thank you so very much for your kind and supporting words.

doingitall4yu 66M
321 posts
4/10/2020 9:51 pm

 How are you? I do think of you! I am so touched by what your son had the wisdom to write--and the twins, of course! He dose show real wisdom! You deserve good things in life, and it doesn't get any better than love from your child! Happy Easter!

Wise words: All of your desires are on the other side of fear!
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Miner1980Brown1 replies on 10/3/2021 2:27 pm:
10/3/2021 - It is amazing at times what comes forth from him. He can make me laugh and I have learned not to be offended when his diarrhea of the mouth comes forth.

I'm a doing and so are the twins

Happy Fall! Stay warm!!!


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