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travel8 73M
31 posts
11/18/2017 7:06 am
Meeting a nice senior

Now that title can be a question also. How do you go about it in a straight world without giving yourself away. In a gay bar or bath they are there for the same reason .. But,,, you have a real cute married neighbor in his 80s you are totally in love with and it is like torture every time you see him as you can't just reach out and touch him . Of course you help him out when he or his wife needs and and you are in their good graces, but that doesn't get you to first base. And since no one but a few close friends even know about me I'm not about to put my reputation on the line and tell him I have the hots for him.
What does a person in the closet do in a case like this ?
Positive reinforcement . I do say call me for anything at anytime since they are in their 80s . I take him for a coffee if he is available . We have cocktails or night caps back and forth every so often . I guess the ball is in his court . By now he must have caught on or not or maybe he is in the same situation and afraid to make the first move tooooo.
The man who brought me out always told me never to make the first move in a straight situation and never to crap in my back yard.
So help me out ,,, what does a man do ? For now I'm going to look at a pic of him and j/o....................................................

docjan2012d 80M

6/23/2018 6:34 pm

 I don't agree with the policy suggested by the man who brought you out. SOMEBODY has to make the first move to see if there is any mutual interest. But it must be 'low key' and the first person's words must be easily dismissable as a joke. For example, you might be out in a public place with your neighbor, perhaps having coffee together. When an attractive stranger passes by, try saying (to your friend) something like "He's kinda cute. Almost makes me wish I was gay." You have laid your first card on the table. His response will tell you much about him.

However I do agree with his advice: "Don't fuck where you live and don't shit where you eat."


travel8 replies on 6/18/2019 1:12 pm:
Thanks for the idea .. I think though I need something a little more innocent than commenting on a cute man .. It will have to be less conspicuous as he is sharp and as I said I'd rather jerk off than screw up this friendship. Hugs to you

nudeasslover 67M

1/16/2022 7:17 pm

 l'm in that closet with you.Scared as hell that my friends and family find out.Living in a small community like Pembroke, l'm extra careful who l play with.l normally play elsewhere.l have a strong love for older men,knowing that they also play quietly.



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