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drmgirl622 68F  
26044 posts
4/24/2019 3:27 pm

There was a time many years ago that I had an intense hatred for a romantic rival. I teetered on the obsessive hatred for her. When it finally got to the time that I wasn't sleeping and plain miserable I told myself that all that hate was causing me to miss all the good in the world…….I gave up that hate and swore I would never allow it to happen ever again.


footer77 55M  
186 posts
4/24/2019 3:49 pm

I hate having a ham and cheese sandwich without mustard.

Seriously, hate is pretty strong emotion. Use it as you would very hot hot sauce with extreme care in your life.


DancingDom 74M
22554 posts
4/24/2019 4:01 pm

Hate will eat you up. You may get away with it for a time, but eventually it gets you. I could hate my exes wives and some others I was romantically involved with who done me wrong. Fact is, I am alive and doing fine without them. Hate is such a wasted energy. I have been angry at times, but learned long ago don't take actions when you are angry, because the anger clouds your vision, actual and long term sensibility. Anger, makes us do dumb things. I don't like to do do dumb things. Heck, I dod enough dumb things without being angry or hating or any of that.

Anger is a reactionary kind of thing. Any action from anger is usually not thought out. Those that do others wrong.......................Karma is going to get you, I don't have to put in the effort. Those folks usually shoot them selves in the proverbial foot at some point.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


DancingDom 74M
22554 posts
4/24/2019 4:02 pm

Sending you some songs via another service.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


RadioGeek_ 63M  
7 posts
4/24/2019 4:16 pm

Life, to my thinkings is all about the journey, One thing i know, is, it has a balance scale. To have Love, there must be it's anti. The question that can be debated is "Is Love's anti, Hate"? For some, it seems this is so. You know about ex-wife. Some would think with all the evil things she did, I would hate her. *shrugs* No, just pity her. It seems for myself, Love's anti, is indifference. Is that better than hate? I do not know. Everyone has to have a "anti" for things in their life. How else can balance be achieved? For myself, it is one of those things I know I will not achieve. But, I will continue to try and find the correct balance for all things in my life.

BT AR

-- N


McGripper 54M

4/24/2019 4:17 pm

I hate guacamole, I m quite fond of fresh avocado and cannot figure this out.

Hatred was a highly effective training tool in the military and quite cheap.

I used to hate myself, now we just dislike each other.

Proper hatred is part of base human nature, in all of us ready to swell, ugly and mainly useless. Its like an appendix with a bad attitude.

The opinions and understanding portrayed in my blog are mainly unfounded, misguided or wrong.


Plzrmeister 67M  
10346 posts
4/24/2019 4:28 pm

I hate Lima beans and liver.....

And beets! You forgot beets.....

Anybody who knowingly grows beets should be sent to Guantanamo.

Fucking A ....

Make Women Female Again


Daddyslilpunkin 47F
3470 posts
4/24/2019 5:52 pm

I do hate some people. Not to the point that it consumes me, but I would not piss in their ear if their brain was on fire. I am a reactionary sort, and I am working on not being so. I speak my mind, and even though some people try to smooth things over with a "I think what Becky meant was..." the truth is I said what I meant...that's why I said it!

I'm generally a really happy sort, but you mess with me or those I love...

I'm mostly full of love and kindness, but there are those who have crossed my ever moving line...and I do hate them.

You found parts of me I didn’t know existed and in you I found a love I no longer believed was real.


jenny14 75T  
90297 posts
4/24/2019 6:33 pm

morii

The "hate" I was talking about was obviously different to the one you are!

As so often, you have raised an important issue!

Of-course, there are things or people I have hated or still hate but I try to move on and forget them! Hate is such a negative emotion!

I will however, as you can guess, ALWAYS hate racism and bigotry!!!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7020 posts
4/24/2019 9:55 pm

I know I hated something or someone at one time, but I can't remember who or what or when. They say memory is the second thing to go. I forget what the first thing is.


Osiris682 56M
400 posts
4/26/2019 4:06 pm

Remember: The opposite of love is not hate. Hate is a version of love in that you still care what happens to that person.

The real opposite of hate is apathy. When you reach the point where you just don't give a damn about them anymore, then you can be free...

The painting of a rice cake does not satisfy hunger



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