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Switch4MrRight1 57F
0 posts
3/18/2018 1:39 pm
It was fun, but not that much fun lol!


Well, I’ve meet some nice people, but I think I’m content to say I’ve had enough fun for now. Statistically, I think it’s impossible to find my unicorn here. This blog is fun to play with but there are 1000 other blogs for folks here to enjoy. Don’t plan on posting again after this, may check in from time to time but alas, the search has ended and I’m back off to enjoying my happy life and end the man-shopping experience. God bless you all who have been here for years, I admire your patience and fortitude. I wish everyone I’ve chatted with the best of luck, you are all fine folks and deserve exactly what you’re hoping for. Thanks again for the fun, I sure have learned a lot, about myself, men in heat, and human nature at this site. No regrets. Take care good people!

maletramp 64M
2095 posts
3/20/2018 9:33 am

Great to hear.. not sure where I would find my daily dose of such fabulous stilettos


Switch4MrRight1 57F

3/20/2018 6:08 am

Overwhelmed at the responses, mailbox full and chats incoming saying the blog should go on, and so it will. Blogging only, no man shopping. I’m already happy


yermaineman 65M
396 posts
3/19/2018 9:36 am

Que sera sera

Adieu Ms. Switch

may dog bless


maletramp 64M
2095 posts
3/19/2018 8:53 am

btw, one of the nicest women I ever met here "was in it for the money"..


Switch4MrRight1 replies on 3/20/2018 10:29 am:
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maletramp 64M
2095 posts
3/19/2018 8:46 am

If you're going to pigeonhole everyone into two classes, "men" and "women" and then define everyone by the average of their class, you will end up with "men" being defined as rude, crude, vulgar sex touting neanderthals.. and the "women" will be described as money grubbing, insenstive, multitasking prostitutes.. Chances are you wont find one individual that meets the description of either.. You kinda have to learn that if you want to find someone decent, it requires patience and a bit of self reflection: "Have I been too abrupt with ones that tried to be kind?" "Did I fall for the bad boy too easily?" "Was I flirting with 5 at once when one deserved my real attention?" "Did I let my libido go too far with the anonymity of the web?"; etc... If you want to find something real here, you better be real with the people you encounter. Most of us know the person on the other side of the screen is a) a real person and b) a bit different than they would really be if this was a face to face meeting.. I just "met" you recently, and found you interesting, but you live in MI; How am I going to think of you in real terms? WHO is moving? I did contemplate contacting you but are you going to be a cyber friend? There are far more subtleties involved than you are crediting others with.. I am certain you met some rude and vulgar males.. You have 10 times more access to the opposite sex than we do.. So you have encountered the dilemma of too much sludge too quickly.. On our side of the screen there is a dearth of basically the same sludge, but with 1/10th the options we literally have 1/100th the odds.. The diamonds are out there.. But you have to mine for them.. The bugs are out there too, and they crawl up your legs, constantly.. SO, with 100 times more interaction than I have encountered, I'd say: "what kept you here so long?".. Maybe it is I who should learn from your vast comparative experience and get the hell outa Dodge.. But the Chinese water torture hasn't quite driven me out yet.. Though, you might be that final instructor that gets the point through.. Thanks for your input!!! Sorry it didn't work for you.....


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
3/19/2018 12:56 am

Man shopping hahaha
The very best of luck to you

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


jenny14 75T  
90457 posts
3/18/2018 9:55 pm

[Switch

i will miss you and hope you return soon....

I do understand your frustration though/COLOR]


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


diavoloslave 62M
202 posts
3/18/2018 4:46 pm

cheers lots of luck, didn't get to know you to well but...... hey!!!!! you make your fun and this just wasn't for you smiles.


DancingDom 74M
22614 posts
3/18/2018 4:00 pm

Best to you for the future. Some of us stay for camaraderie. If I happen to connect with someone in the future so be it. This has never been an instant oatmeal site. Well for some, they connected early. But for most folks, if they want real life, they simply take their time.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7021 posts
3/18/2018 3:56 pm

I figured this would happen when you found out I was more than an hour away.


drmgirl622 68F  
26175 posts
3/18/2018 3:06 pm

I am so sorry to see you go. Each of us have follow our own path and wishing you the best on yours.


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
3/18/2018 2:50 pm

I’ve never looked for a long-term partner here but I’m very much aware of the ‘men on heat’ phenomenon on alt where men forget all about their manners and think vulgarism is the way forward. I’ve had far better discussions with men on vanilla sites but yes I like the blogging side of things here although I tend to take breaks.

Let’s see if you get drawn back as seems to happen to some people. Good luck!


Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
3/18/2018 1:52 pm

The apposite expression is that one often find's one's desitny on the road one takes to avoid it. Carpe diem and the best of luck to you.



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