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Switch4MrRight1 57F
0 posts
4/7/2018 1:39 pm
Trust, communication, and a dirty dirty mind...

Isn’t the greatest turn-on about a kinky relationship
the level of trust and communication you share with your partner? It is for
me. Having someone you can trust with all your thoughts,
vanilla and dirty, is marvelous, it makes submitting your
body to the other a gift, a gift of trust. Being able to
share your mind makes sharing your body easy and natural.
Break the trust or dismiss the communication and the bond weakens, starts to fade, or
ends.


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
4/8/2018 1:06 pm

Open, honest communication and trust allows you to be vulnerable both emotionally and physically. Not to mention being accepted for who are you.
All that and a dirty, devaint mind that sings from the song sheet ...... mmmmmm bliss

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


rosaenaluin 65F
11090 posts
4/8/2018 1:00 am

love the picture!!


ianmidwest 69M  
214 posts
4/7/2018 5:00 pm

fully agree .... love a dirty mind .... just need a jet of water in the right place to clean it up .... suffer, it can be so powerful !!


bondageman0127 68M

4/7/2018 3:26 pm

You nailed it Ms. Switch, you covered all the bases....


Switch4MrRight1 replies on 4/7/2018 3:33 pm:

jenny14 75T  
90475 posts
4/7/2018 3:12 pm

Switch

So very true! The mind is so important!!!

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
4/7/2018 2:32 pm

If it isn't a meeting of minds with shared goals and opinions, it surely becomes abuse at whatever level.


Specialonehere 68M

4/7/2018 2:25 pm

The trust in the partner is what it is all about, young lady...for sure. That's the neat things about submissives too...is earning that trust because it isn't just given. How people got the idea that a submissive is a doormat, I don't know. It's the giving up of control incumbent in the trust that is the turn on.


Switch4MrRight1 replies on 4/7/2018 2:27 pm:
Very nicely stated, agree 1001%. Your post is appreciated.

maletramp 64M
2095 posts
4/7/2018 2:11 pm

Kinky sex definitely puts more stress on the "trust" barriers.. Perhaps part of the attraction to kink is the search for a truly trustworthy partner!? But, the first woman I tried to explain my kink to accused me of not caring enough about her; Her thinking was I would only tell such things to a person whose reaction I would be ambivalent about; The exact opposite of my intention and yet it teaches you that the message always has two components; The transmitter and the receiver both need to be on the same wavelength..



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