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slaveheather1 41F
69 posts
6/2/2019 5:51 am
why do men view profiles of lesbians?


why do men (especially those with paid memberships) view, hotlist, flirt, or send friend requests, or email lesbian women? what do they hope to accomplish? Aside from getting themselves blocked, i can't think of a thing. Perhaps men should learn what the word lesbian means, either that learn to read and to think with their brain s, not that normally pitiful appendage between their legs. Dildos are always larger, and never go soft after 2 minutes

slynxy 50F  
75 posts
6/2/2019 10:33 am

They view them because lesbians are sexy ...

And flirt and write because they think they are only lesbian because they haven’t met them...

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brandygirasol 55T
9434 posts
6/2/2019 11:42 am

Because MOST MEN around here are clueless about READing profiles FIRST to SEE what someone is into sexually before STUPIDLY diving in hitting on you ... Shall we just call them THE LOSERS


Gowron 69M
3112 posts
6/2/2019 11:46 am

Lesbians can be pretty. I don't mind looking at their pictures. Doesn't mean I'll try to contact them.

Curiously, a few lesbians take a look at my profile as well.

Also, I've got a close friend who's lesbian, so I often wonder "would she like this one?"


msfunfor 63M
10775 posts
6/2/2019 12:13 pm

hello ,
,,,sounds like a feud is about to errupt ?

can't wait for the repies

be good
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kdom4whores2 65M
231 posts
6/2/2019 12:21 pm

Ha war has already begun here will have to keep an eye sounds like fun lol


marshamay 36F
5964 posts
6/2/2019 12:58 pm

They know they'll never have to make a commitment.


slaveheather1 41F
35 posts
6/2/2019 1:28 pm

typical responses from men, not realizing that most lesbians (an yes they do really exist) announce that they are lesbian in the first sentence of their profile, something anyone can see by placing the cursor on the picture and obtaining a quick view of said profile.


drmgirl622 68F  
26119 posts
6/2/2019 2:03 pm

I'm not getting into the war but it is true they have to view the profile to determine sexual preference. Now.....other than reading the profile no other contact is necessary. I do have male friends......operative word......friends.


marshamay 36F
5964 posts
6/2/2019 4:22 pm

    Quoting slaveheather1:
    typical responses from men, not realizing that most lesbians (an yes they do really exist) announce that they are lesbian in the first sentence of their profile, something anyone can see by placing the cursor on the picture and obtaining a quick view of said profile.
the mouseover will show up as a view.


slynxy 50F  
75 posts
6/2/2019 5:28 pm

Not everyone was venting


McGripper 54M

6/2/2019 6:44 pm

Depends on the lesbian!

The opinions and understanding portrayed in my blog are mainly unfounded, misguided or wrong.


slaveheather1 41F
35 posts
6/3/2019 3:21 am

McGripper, then I guess there is no reason to read anything that you write in a blog, and btw, if you are ashamed to show an actual face pic on your profile, then odds say that you don't belong on this site.


Sweetsub4useAll 29M

6/7/2019 5:46 pm

Well i for one find that observing the tender love between two sexy ladies is highly erotic .


slaveheather1 41F
35 posts
6/8/2019 3:14 am

DominMD, if you are a man (or trapped in a man's body as you claim) then you are straight, not a lesbian. Sweetsub4useall, watch lesbian porn then, it doesn't give you the right to hit on, stalk, or harass a lesbian.


Sidcool1000 39M

6/8/2019 7:16 pm

En tout cas un vrai homme n'a pas besoin de lesbnienne


slaveheather1 41F
35 posts
6/9/2019 2:59 am

Siscool1000, speak the international language: English, so all can know what you have to say.


LovingMasterIN 41M

6/10/2019 4:32 pm

A few reasons

Alot of people (both men and women) do not both to read much of anything in the profile. They look at the pictures and then send a message, flirt, whatever.
And since lesbians frequently show up in the search results for "women seeking men" for whatever reason...

Alot of people (both men and women) are assholes and think they are something special and will be the one exception.

Then there are a ton of scam artists on these sites. I'm not convinced that anyone who has contacted me or whom I have exchanged messages with is an actual, genuine person. The scam artists tend to not pay much attention to the profile, they just send out as many messages/replies as possible.


slaveheather1 41F
35 posts
6/11/2019 2:58 am

While some ort all of that may be true, I wonder how one of those macho, straight males would feel about getting flirted with , emailed, IMed, hotlisted, receive a friend request from, or even just viewed by a gay man?


LovingMasterIN 41M

6/11/2019 3:19 am

It happens. Alot, actually.
I just ignore it and move on.

There is also the possibility that they are legitimately interested in you and are just trying their luck. Like I said, lesbians do show up in search results for "women seeking men."


slaveheather1 41F
35 posts
6/11/2019 5:02 am

well that is a problem that the site should correct


LovingMasterIN 41M

6/11/2019 2:52 pm

Agreed, but I've run into it on other sites as well. Not sure why the algorithms sometimes do that.


FriendlyPain007 69M  
70 posts
6/13/2019 11:14 am

Although my profile clearly states that I am straight, several gay men have send me flirts, IMs and messages asking me to hurt them.

No big deal - we all are humans and as my mom taught me, we should tolerate others who are different from us even if we do not love them.


slaveheather1 41F
35 posts
6/14/2019 3:33 am

Ehhibitbi, i have seen a pic of a woman i find attractive, and ran the cursor over her pic, if it says that she is NOT seeking women, then i move on,

FriendlyPain007, while i understand a man doing what i just stated, what i have a problem with is the men who ignore the fact that i am only seeking women, and hotlist me, flirt with me, send a friend request, IM me or email me with a disgusting pic of t heir n inadequate family jewels telling me how they are going to convert or turn me into a cock hungry straight bitch.


slaveheather1 41F
35 posts
6/14/2019 6:43 am

Good point, i am NOT eye candy for the masses.


slaveheather1 41F
35 posts
6/14/2019 10:08 am

I agree with You, and i don't hate men, i just n ignore them until they get obnoxious, then i say something about their lack of sensibility.



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