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#notallwhiteguys I recently stopped talking to someone on this site. He insisted on pushing his racial narrative. I've decided I just don't want anything to do with it. He said something like "Do you want my big white dick in your fat black pussy?" And I just kinda immediately became fatally disinterested. Now, I admit, I should have handled this better. I shouldn't have figured out something to respond to him with. But I just didn't feel like it. And honestly, I didn't have to. Just today, I had a satisfying scene with a switch who brought out my Domme side, a side I didn't even know I had. So (fortunately) I'm not hurting for attraction. I'm always asked to explain my actions and feelings. But I'm not the one who opted to make our scene about race. Why do some people feel like they can just do something like that without checking in with their partner? Since when are such assumptions acceptable? I get that some black people incorporate racial into their sex lives. I'm simply not one of them. I don't want to talk about your big white cock. No, you're not the first white guy I've dated, so you can take stupid smug look off of your face. I've been with black, white, Asian, Latinx, mixed men, and one Native American. Not by design, just lucky, I guess? I've also experienced prejudice from almost all of those groups too (yes, including black men). My point is just that race is fucking complicated. A person shouldn't make assumptions about how I feel if we haven't discussed it before. And if we're in the middle of cybering, my hand on my clit, and someone rolls out "you want my big white cock in your black pussy?" I'm gonna ghost you, and talk to someone else (btw, in this case the someone else is also white. He just doesn't fetishize our racial difference without discussing it with me first). Considering I like some really rough and nasty stuff, I think I've earned a little latitude for my own mental and physical safety. I'd like this to be the last post about me having the audacity to have boundaries, but I doubt that very much. **Edited to correct grammar. I was drunk af when I wrote this. Sorry to any fellow grammar sticklers who had to read the really rough rough draft. |
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Life is full of surprises, and radical changes. I have a new house in a different town and a new freedom now that I am living alone. Trying to reach you and see what might be rekindled.
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1 post 9/17/2022 4:00 pm |
No, you didn't need to respond better. Just block or ignore. Some are turned on by the skin color difference, but if really that rude, just block or report.
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