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Can a Dom become Pussy Whipped? I was just wondering if it was possible a Dom forget his place and become pussy whipped by his sub? |
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I have sen it in others. And some have tried topping me from the bottom., when it does not work, it pisses them off. They either accept or if not it is time for them to move on. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Because self discipline is a key characteristic of Dominant personality ,a Dominant type may be overtly focused on a particular submissive and particular aspects of that, but to become totally and uncontrollably under the spell of a vagina is a trait unbecoming of the Dominant type ...Simply meaning it was an under cover switch or beta type compensating and masquerading as a Dominant Alpha type
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11/25/2019 9:23 am |
Yes but ultimately it is the sub in some ways that calls the shots, if the Dom is very pleased with his sub 😘, he desires her more and more and has the craving of her at a stronger level
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11/25/2019 10:29 am |
Depends on the pussy.
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11/25/2019 11:57 am |
If you belong to Fetlife you would see things differently, it’s something you both work on and you respect one another. You both need to earn your place. A Dom isn’t a Dom just because he can tell you what panties to wear or to do this or that. It’s about trusting your Dom, knowing he wont let me fall.
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There are two versions of this. First, where the dom is truly pussy whipped where without him actually realizing it, what he was doing to his sub was causing her so much pleasure, especially with pain, that she in a very subtle fashion and then more overtly started directing what her dom should be doing to her body, and how hard. When the dom eventually senses what has happened to him, he might get highly irritated about what his sub has done to him as she now was dominating him and topping him from the bottom. However, this is definitely the wrong attitude to take. He wanted to do this stuff to her in the first place, he caused her so much pleasure with the pain that he gave her, that she wanted more, and thus he actually was in a position where both he and her were in a position to increase their mutual pleasure into the stratosphere. The correct procedure is to go with the flow, and do what he has to do to her, and what she wants done to her, until, it is clear that she has had enough. Then at that time, he again will exert his decision making and dominance and bring back control of the situation and stop the scene. It should be pointed out that if the couple are doing edge play, and both are really experienced so the sub is not allowed to use safewords, so that once she directs her dom to push her limits by doing what she wants most done to her body, she has absolutely no control anymore over what happens to her body, and the dominant is purely in control in spite of her topping from below. She essentially is out-topped. For instance, if she has directed her dom to whip her pussy or the rest of her body, once he has complied with her request, because she is not using a safeword, she cannot stop him no matter how much it hurts, until he thinks she has had enough, and stops the whipping, thereby remaining in control. The dom, however, must not get into domspace and lose control over his sub and what he is doing to her because he could injure her seriously. This form of being pussey whipped by being in domspace is highly undesirable. On the other hand, if both the dom and the sub enjoy the concept of her topping from below, with the bottom calling the directions to her top, who now assumes a less dominant role, and she a less submissive role that is more dominant and controlling, they can now enter into a form of exciting edge play without the usual safewords where the bottom, who is no longer really acting as a sub, but acting totally as a dominant, challenging her "top" dominant to try to break her. The winner of this intense contest between two "dominants" is the player who can outlast the other in terms of endurance. When the dominant sees that he cannot allow his sub take any more action to her body, or looks like she is going to faint (or actually does faint) and thus is never broken, or if he can't go on because of his own physical exhaustion, his bottom won the contest. This type of interaction does require a special type of safeword or otherwise, he cannot possibly win. On the other hand if, his bottom utters a safeword three times (to insure that she indeed has been broken), then he has won the contest. There should be no hard feelings, the defeated player now may be the victor on the next scene go around. Obviously, both players must be a well experienced sadist interacting with a well experienced masochist for this to work. It's clearly not for everybody. Painmaster271
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Define pussy whipped. See, here's the thing... There's a definite link between pussy whipped and pussy whipping. If it's mine and I own it and I can whip it when I want to - damned straight I'm going to love her for it. And I'm going to put her first in all things, I'm going to forego other things in order to be with her, I'm going to actively consult with her on most decisions and certainly any major ones (doesnt mean I wont make my own call but I will factor in her thoughts). I'm going to treat her like a queen, respect her, trust her, cherish her... all those things. I'm going to make hard choices around needs and wants, and sometimes sacrifice things I might desire for her happiness. I'm going to work my ass off to provide. Now if that makes me pussy whipped then so be it: though personally I prefer to consider it being in a relationship. Having said that... it will be an M/s (my preference) or D/s relationship. And it will also be a sadomasochistic relationship... I'm the kind of guy that will literally whip pussy, and if it's offline for a few days after well thats why she has a mouth. I own that too. B&D, D/s, S&M, M/s are all descriptors.... the key word is always relationship. In relationships we put our partners first before most everything else except children, although there's also plebeian considerations about paying bills etc that mean you need to go to work on Tuesday baring emergencies..... the real world shit. So I don't consider it being pussy whipped.... I consider it being in love.... different love to most but.... still love. But I also agree with what DD said...the topping from the bottom business just pisses me off, and it's not going to make it to the relationship stage.
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Define pussy whipped. See, here's the thing... There's a definite link between pussy whipped and pussy whipping. If it's mine and I own it and I can whip it when I want to - damned straight I'm going to love her for it. And I'm going to put her first in all things, I'm going to forego other things in order to be with her, I'm going to actively consult with her on most decisions and certainly any major ones (doesnt mean I wont make my own call but I will factor in her thoughts). I'm going to treat her like a queen, respect her, trust her, cherish her... all those things. I'm going to make hard choices around needs and wants, and sometimes sacrifice things I might desire for her happiness. I'm going to work my ass off to provide. Now if that makes me pussy whipped then so be it: though personally I prefer to consider it being in a relationship. Having said that... it will be an M/s (my preference) or D/s relationship. And it will also be a sadomasochistic relationship... I'm the kind of guy that will literally whip pussy, and if it's offline for a few days after well thats why she has a mouth: I own that too. I own all of her - body, mind & spirit - thats part of the deal. B&D, D/s, S&M, M/s are all descriptors.... the key word is always relationship. In relationships we put our partners first before most everything else except children, although there's also plebeian considerations about paying bills etc that mean you need to go to work on Tuesday baring emergencies..... the real world shit. So I don't consider it being pussy whipped.... I consider it being in love.... different love to most.... but still love. But I also agree with what DD said...the topping from the bottom business just pisses me off, and it's not going to make it to the relationship stage.
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Anything's possible, even Trump's innocence, if you scrunch your eyes shut tight and wish with all your might. It's just pretty fucking unlikely.  
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11/26/2019 4:25 am |
i would guess anyone could for the right pussy.
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I really like the point Alex made. I truly understand what feelmeglow has said. Also sexy sub, how gentle elegant and always classy the way you shared to big apple bob. This is a wonderful question. You state the feelings I have for My sub. The better she is, the more I desire. However in My case, this is the power of the Dom/sub relationship. As the sub gives more of herself , and I in turn gain her power, that is the gift of Dom/sub. My sub gives up her power, and trusts Me to steer it, control it, and I do it so lovingly for her because as a Dom I live for that gift of control, as she desires to give it up. If I were to become so focused, but being so focused, I would not forget My place. Ahhh... With out asking more questions, the simple answer in My mind is YES. because you stated the Dom has fogot his place. You see if any of us loose focus. The Dom or the sub, can get off track. Once off track, anything is possible. Thank you for that brain teaser. I love the bdsm world. So many things to do and so many choices. It excites Me fresh, each and every day. Thanks for the smile on My face now, sexy sub.
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