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Sexy__Sub 59F
407 posts
11/29/2019 8:06 am
Being a Switch


I’ve had men between this site and Fetlife asking if I’d Domme them. I’ve been doing some observing, I’ve played with men in the vanilla world that act somewhat sub like. I truly believe after seeing things on here and on other sites I can please a sub after we talk and I find out his lard limits, and his soft limits. I do know all the protocol that goes along with it. I believe it’s a journey I’ll enjoy😁

jenny14 75T  
90351 posts
11/29/2019 9:45 am

Sub

Switching can be fun and educational

Enjoy


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


SmallDinkySub 49T
3 posts
11/29/2019 10:21 am

While it may be fun for a true sub to try on the dom mask, i feel the need for some words of caution.

For myself i find, that it is always a game where you roleplay your dream dominant, giving the sub the things you would like if you were in it's place. While it can be entertainment, you have to make sure not to lose yourself in playing a role as a "service" to someone else. You don't want to feel jealous of the sub you play with after all, as that can lead to unfair judgements and a personal feeling of missing out in all that.

This is coming from a sub, i am sure that people more inclined to a natural dynamic switching approach may experience this entirely differently.


olderdaddy_63 68M

11/29/2019 1:17 pm

I was in a high stress mid-management position for many years. Clowns to the left of me, jokers to the right...oh, no, no...that's a song. Customers bitching to the left of me, upper management to the right. I found it necessary to visit a professional dominatrix just so I didn't have to be in charge of the sex at times. That being said, I'd be willing to be your guinea pig, er, um, sub(ject)


ReliefPitching 68M
23 posts
11/29/2019 2:58 pm

for a reference....view the emma marx series where she travels from submissive to dominant


Sexy__Sub 59F

11/29/2019 3:21 pm

Thank you SDS, I’m first and foremost a sub.... but I must admit the excitement of being a Domme to a male sub is very arousing mentally. I have 2 men very interested in us discussing things...... time will tell


Sexy__Sub 59F

11/29/2019 3:24 pm

Older Daddy I just read your words, sweet, with a twist of humor, always a plus. 😊


TangoJay 46M
31 posts
12/12/2019 4:21 am

switching isn't for everyone, that being said it's always worth trying. especially when you have a thought that wanders. You explore yourself as much as the other.

It is possible that you will unlock a part of yourself that you never knew, or admitted existed. Just don't be hard on yourself if you find that it's not really for you. That is part of the whole exploration process.

Though I really, really, hope you have a great time


Daddyknowsbest8 56M
138 posts
2/2/2020 8:57 am

Good luck. You sound like you have a handel.on it. But more importantly a plan. Have fun.



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