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Respecting Women Writing is and never will be my specialty but I thought I would give this a go. This topic has always been in the back of my mind so I thought it would be a good time to share my feelings on the matter. Respect. As the saying goes, it is earned not given. I find that partially true, mostly with an established relationship. General respect to others in our daily lives should be the given part as it seems to be lacking greatly in today's society, especially when it comes to women from a man's perspective. I will never forget something a coworker of mine said about our female employer over 20 ago. This guy was a poor employee, mistake prone, lazy and always late. After she lightly reprimanded him for something he deserved, she proceeded to return to her office. Once gone, he blurted out "Yeah yeah, I could bend you over and r*pe you right now if I wanted to bitch." This drew laughter and snide comments from 2 or 3 other guys I worked with. I was stunned by what he said but went back to work, always regretting I did not say something to this guy. As a man, you hear these things a lot. Sometimes even on a daily basis. Trust me when I say this, most men have this troubling lack of respect for women, from mild to severe, even if they don't show it often. Some only think it, others say it out loud or even act upon it. From women with empowering roles in the workplace to devoted stay at home mothers, there is an underlying thought process in most men's minds about females. Most males will always feel superior to women, believing women are beneath them, some of that generated through embedded code in our makeup but much more through society and human conditioning. Most of this stems from our sexual makeup and differences in our bodies. Men are the givers, the hunters while women are the receivers and nurturers. Males are generally bigger and stronger and faster. The differences between the genders trigger these underlying tones in men. It becomes even more prevalent if a woman assumes the submissive roll in the fetish lifestyle so many of us here enjoy. It is one thing to cater to a woman's submissive desires in the bedroom but another to continue or heighten or even alter it into a degrading daily tone and thought process. We are different, the genders are made to be different, to create life and continue our species. Women go through so much more than men just being who they are. Respect that. They often face more difficult choices and have to overcome bigger obstacles in life. Support that. The carnal act of sex between us is needed, with men pretty much assuming the dominant role in that regard.. (even in a vanilla relationship) However, we are ALL human beings, and women should be treated as such. They work, they parent, they love, they laugh,and they are beautiful to behold. A woman is smart, strong and tough too, never forget that. Treasure them always for the people that they are and give women the respect they deserve, earned or otherwise.  |
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Beautifully written Humble...a very good perspective and very well thought through. Hugs and keep them coming!!
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1/25/2019 12:12 pm |
Awesome humble, i love it, I'm thinking about starting a blog of my own. 😘
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You write very well, your toughts are clear and persice ty for writing this, i look forawrd to reading more.
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1/25/2019 7:50 pm |
Thank you all for the positive feedback. I really do feel this way and it is something I have wanted to express for a long time.
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1/31/2019 6:12 am |
Wow! Very insightful outlook there mr humble! You are one of the good guys for sure.
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7/4/2019 8:57 pm |
I didn't realize how much sexism women have to put up with until the last year or so of my life, and I'm 38. I was also, until recently, unaware of some of my own past sexist behavior toward women. I think a lot of men behave in sexist ways and don't know it.
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