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janwofwof 33F
17 posts
8/9/2019 1:25 pm
Fakes vs Dumbshits


Which is worse not by numbers.

Fakes
They usually have the simplest pictures to point out that they were on a website. Have even seen some that have "confirmed" profiles, yet when you tineye the photo it comes back with a huge number of hits on it. Guess they figure cause they are "confirmed", means stealing a dick pic from a website means it is theirs. Even had some that wanted to go on cam to prove it was them but still trying to deny that they stole the pic. Being a woman i have thankfully not had a run in with the other fakes that i read about, the ones that are after i guess. The ones people say they are somewhere but it isn't where their profile says, but they need your help getting to you. Thankfully again i haven't had any guys try that either.

Dumbshits
These are the ones that mostly have gold and can read your profile, yet when they see you and them are not compatible they still flirt or try to message you. Not knowing if they think they are better then what you are looking for as they might think of themselves as "hotshit" but are really dumbshits. Some when rejected one way or another will even add post or comments saying something about anyone being real. Real also means knowing when someone isnt interested in you by what they say, not what you say. Then there is the other kind that have no profile pic and or little to no information on themselves or who or what they are looking for. These people always say they want to meet, but realistically how many people go on a date or a meet or anything on no comments or info or "me male... you female.

GYSGT9999 66M

8/9/2019 1:30 pm

I like what you said about both same goes for females on here fake profiles and stolen pic's


janwofwof 33F

8/9/2019 1:34 pm

Yes both male and female profiles i have seen with stolen pics, but what is actually still worst i think, is when someone posts and busts them on it. Others after that person still try to compliment and hook up with the fake.


viewer000 47M

8/9/2019 1:36 pm

Fakes:
If they don't know how to use the word "I" they are most likely a fake too.


janwofwof 33F

8/9/2019 1:41 pm

I have seen a view posts about that, where the english is really bad. Also seem to be the younger ones too. A lot of the time have seen the posts saying that they were young teenage boys, where i thought it might of been some old guy that doesn't speak good english.


DancingDom 74M
22604 posts
8/9/2019 1:51 pm

Well welcome to blog land. There seems to be a better quality group of people here. Still there are fakes and dumb asses. Best to you.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


janwofwof 33F

8/9/2019 1:53 pm

Have also heard the words "alt bot" thrown around, not sure if it is the profiles of people that i see enter rooms and not saying anything. They always seem to be young people that others try to get their attention with no luck.


grizzlybr22 65M
8 posts
8/9/2019 2:54 pm

so true..trying to b patient, and find that elusive "real" profile.


msfunfor 63M
10792 posts
8/9/2019 3:22 pm

hello ,
i agree with gizzlybr . patience and being aware that this is mostly
a window-shopping site .....
best to hope / look locally to actually get something going..lol'


be good
M

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wk14 57M
61 posts
8/9/2019 3:26 pm

I like the ones that have their picture driving but the are on the wrong side.


Hot_Buns 62M
90 posts
8/9/2019 3:45 pm

All of this adds up to why I'm a standard member.

The odds of meeting a real woman here are worse than winning the lottery,
so I'm spending my money on lottery tickets. This site is simply a diversion.


MSV2U 61F
83 posts
8/9/2019 4:29 pm

Unfortunately I have encountered all the fakes, flakes, bullshiters, scammers, cons and wankers with every sort of profile in the year I have been on this site.

What disappoints Me is the energy and time I spend on men that say we are exactly what we are looking for.
When I start to develop serious interests and I open up begin trusting and I make plans...
they suddenly cannot live the life they want, crave and need until...
WTF so many excuses.

I so agree with your post Jan!


alwaysassertive 64M

8/9/2019 4:45 pm

Stay away from anyone that has a picture of their deformed dick hanging out. even if they are real that shows their interest is clearly not BDSM. Most here are simple kinky sex seekers playing a role. There are lots of real people interested in what the old school BDSM represents. You can quickly tell about someone when the conversation turns to sex in less than 8 minutes and within 20 minutes of chatting they are already wanting to meet with someone. If they are wanting you to meet them, and you don't even have their real phone number, and you only know a kik account name there's a problem. I can understand some people not having a profile picture due to the nature of their job and the necessity to be discreet. Every profile picture that I have used that wasn't my face was removed either after a few hours or a day and none were inappropriate maybe it's because I'm not a gold member. I don't know. Having shot professional video I can spot a suspected professional photo or one that's photo shopped. Anyway that's all I have to say about that. Just be careful.


Aislin 39F  
8605 posts
8/11/2019 2:54 pm

    Quoting alwaysassertive:
    Stay away from anyone that has a picture of their deformed dick hanging out. even if they are real that shows their interest is clearly not BDSM. Most here are simple kinky sex seekers playing a role. There are lots of real people interested in what the old school BDSM represents. You can quickly tell about someone when the conversation turns to sex in less than 8 minutes and within 20 minutes of chatting they are already wanting to meet with someone. If they are wanting you to meet them, and you don't even have their real phone number, and you only know a kik account name there's a problem. I can understand some people not having a profile picture due to the nature of their job and the necessity to be discreet. Every profile picture that I have used that wasn't my face was removed either after a few hours or a day and none were inappropriate maybe it's because I'm not a gold member. I don't know. Having shot professional video I can spot a suspected professional photo or one that's photo shopped. Anyway that's all I have to say about that. Just be careful.
The deformed dick is definitely a huge turn off

I use the old rule as it was taught to me 3 months of skyping to get to know someone and I have often said no cam it's a scam.


I am aroused by my own darkness and there is no cure.


wannabeslutcpl 59M/33F
5 posts
8/11/2019 3:43 pm

Can usually spot them within minutes of a starting a chat, as there is a definite difference in the language and expressions used by men and women. What amuses me most is the 'goldfish ate my homework' type excuses used to avoid confirming their gender by means of a 5 second cam flash when asked for!!



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