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EnthrallLady 53F  
39 posts
8/12/2019 6:58 pm
Trials of finding a bdsm teacher.
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DancingDom 74M
22588 posts
8/12/2019 7:29 pm

 Welcome to the blogs. Best to you. I am headed to bed, but will add another comment tomorrow about your topic here.
"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


alwaysassertive 64M

8/12/2019 9:47 pm

 Virgins are good for sacrifice..I'm just joking...where are you going to find a virgin anyway.


alwaysassertive 64M

8/12/2019 10:02 pm

 you can find what you want. People don't create themselves. knowledge has to come from somewhere. A BDSM book is basically a journal or guide to pick and choose what you might want and expand on your interest. Conversation will greatly enrich the understanding. I'm old school but sometimes I'll add a little twist to things. I discovered the story of "O" when I was 13. Somethings in the book I agreed with, and others I didn't. There are no cookie cutter solutions. Always be flexible and adaptable.


mrmindme2 102M
218 posts
8/13/2019 3:39 am

 I actually prefer an 'untrained' sub over the 'dime a dozen... well used' players who are only here to get fucked or waste our time with drama and BS. There are also many used and abused subs here who were ‘trained’ by the horny poser doms and are now broken or worse.

Unfortunately there are no qualifications or standards to be a Dom, sub, or whatever they want to be called here... each person has their own criteria and some will argue that their opinion is the only one that matters. Take it slow... read, write, discover, chat with those you find interesting, sincere and match your goals and values. Good things usually happen to those who are patient and willing to work to reach their goals.

There are some time proven people on this site with years of experience and advice, all documented within their blogs or articles. It's your responsibility to do your homework and find the One who best fits your needs.

Welcome to Blogville... a good place to start your path.


EnthrallLady replies on 8/21/2019 9:56 am:
Thank you for your advice. It definitely is showing me the path. It is up to me to decide if I wish to put all my hopes on one person to teach me everything or educate myself so I go in with my eyes open.

olderdaddy_63 68M

8/13/2019 5:25 am

 You are so far away otherwise I would love to guide thru the DD/lg experience. If you are ever on IM let's chat, if it is working at that time...


EnthrallLady replies on 8/21/2019 9:51 am:
Drop me a line or friend me and I will respond.


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