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Real Dominants verses users..the Domme edition I think ironic when we hear a term like " user" we always think of that creepy,old,careless or abusive male dominant in any group. Yet we always give Dommes a pass...we tend not see them as abusive pricks. Part of that is because we hear the constant drumming of complaints that male subs are " do " and there are no real male subs out there. Guys are constantly sending them dick pics. male subs are players looking for sex yet Dommes are real,deeply rooted in the lifestyle. We tend see Dommes as the victim. (Funny noone ever called a female sub a " do me"...Doms arent bitching about receiving nudes). Apparently all the lifestyles real problems are sub men??? So i wanted discuss " users" today.. For example my ex let it slip that her sub was coming over that night ??? Wow that was news to ..we were talking for over a month and she never mentioned this fact. Not that i cared...but still that seemed odd. but he isnt her submissive...it's ms kat's old service slave. She hasnt seen him in like 3 months and just calls him when she needs something done. ??? ( me with my mouth dropped emoji).. Really? Ofcourse she has no real interest in this guy...he is a bit of a headcase and has heath issues. Yet he calls her every night make sure everything is good... Yet i doubt she gives a fuck about him. Fuck she never cared about I think Dommes are given a pass cause of stereotypes. Dommes are depicted using men financially,sexually or more chore orientated. For example a Domme will have men clean her house,mow the grass, detail her car etc. The stereotype sorta encourages women use men Funny how we never see that dynamic between any other combo...you never see a female sub detailing a master's car, you never see a gay sub sweeping carpets, you'll never see a Domme using a lesbian sub as an atm/findom,etc. We never want see a Dom using women... So why do we give Dommes a pass? If you using someone..then your a complete asshole. |
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Being serious..can anyone explain this accepted user standard between Dommes and male subs? And why does it exist? Why is it encouraged? If anything it seems like the only reason to get a male sub is to see what you can get out of him
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No my response is based on observation...so lets stay on topic...
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Judge Judy says it best, "you picked her." Then there is the Max Faust answer, Pussy Trumps.
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