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Bi men...a discussion See below Thank you |
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I am piggybacking of a topic discussed eariler today.. But seriously..how do you define what a bi male is? Traditionally one could say someone interested in both genders.. But what does that even mean...and to what exent? Is the girl crushing on taylor swift now bi? Is the hubby sucking dick on the sly...well bi? Is a girl kissing another girl in a bar...bi? Is bisexuality on a spectrum or an absolute like straight or gay? I think the real problem with defining bi men is the men themselves. A good majority of bi men are married to women and viewed as straight. But if the bi guy dates another dude then he is seen as gay. It's like the bi is morphed right out of him Society doesnt see bi men .a male is defined by his partner/hubby/wife. And how is a bi man different than a gay one? Have ever thought about it? I haven't because i've been with both. And know the difference. But does society? Being bi isnt the matrix.. it's not chosing the red pussy or the blue cock that night. People think being gay is hard. Try being bi,married and still desiring men/women. ( im not married..just using that for dramtic effect). People wish they really could be me...this isnt me being boastful Seriously..i am the unicorn. ( duh...why does this surprise anyone) ..the one bi guy that actually doesnt see gender and is equally attracted to both genders/all genders. I could eat pussy or dick all night Most bi guys are more 60/40,70/30,80/20.. few guys can admit that their attraction to women equals men. But it's deeper then that. Most guys label themselves as bi because they want to suck a dick or explore anal. But so many are afraid to touch another dude,cuddle,hell make out.. I think you'd be surprise how many bi guys have never even been out on a date with another guy. To me being bi really means having actual feelings for either gender,enjoying spending time with them, being affectionate with them..caring for them. Or maybe your boy is the unicorn..
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Is it all about the label?
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All i know is that i enjoy being with my wife, a lot.But my wife is is strictly straight and vanilla. So judge me, i like to play with a cock now and then, as a sub or even just a little cuddle time, i enjoy it. i have had a Mistress who was very good and taught me a lot about BDSM. Now i have a Master and i am learning the difference (painfully lol). I have enjoyed both and will continue to do so i believe.
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