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Interesting female profile found..but i need your input on this one See below |
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I decided to look again on some of the older bdsm sites...seemed like same ole same ole.. But then i tried the " pan sexual" option and someone new poppped up. A local pan Domme. And her profile sends off interesting yet confusing vibes. I really wanted to cut and paste it here. But i thought that would be disrespectful. So ill try to go over some of the talking points. So i thought id ask the peanut gallery their opinion. On collarspace they allow you to list your likes and dislikes in a list form. She was very generic. Instead of listing specifics like whips,pain, or various other kinks. She basically said high protocol and then listed some vanilla options like cards,crafts,music, etc. Which isnt necessarily a bad thing.. alot of times a Dominant will be more generic/ button down and the male sub will listed every damn thing he's into. And no it's not odd for a male to take the lead and talk about his desires.. While the Dommes sits back and drinks it all in. ( just my experience) But in her profile she leads off hard saying she wants to know the subs fetishes,fantasies,what you jerk off to,etc. She says something like she wants to own you through them ( no not like in a findom or blackmail way.. i think she meant knowing your fetishes to control you better) ( so my first thought is she is a pro..without saying so..maybe the site doesnt allow it. It's been my experience that most Dommes are interested in someone's kink. But that is pretty much where it ends. She will be driving the ship. So i thought her opening paragraphs were different. But hey maybe she is the type that allows a male just enough rope so he can h@ng himself. By this i mean indulging in his fetish ( even if it is just initially) is a great means of controlling him and a great power exchange. And by leading him in with something he luvs, she then can train him for other fetishes. I found her following paragraphs more interesting. She talks about wanting high protocol. But also says that until a relationship is established they can operate in more of a casual manner. Her idea of high protocol is no eye contact,no speaking unless spoken to,end every sentence with Mistress,kneel in her presence.. Which to me seemed like someone genuine and not a big deal. And this requirement sorta eased my fear of her being a pro. Her last paragraph really spoke volumes to me. She talks about hard limits and respecting them. But.. ( my words and not hers).. I have a feeling she really enjoys pushing a sub into trying/ exploring various other avenues of play in order for the male to grow. So she powder puffs this sentence as not to scare a potential sub away. For example i could see the average joe not being into other guys or cross dressing. A hard limit for some guys I feel this is the type of woman that really would get off on conditioning him to now say suck a cock or dress up as a woman. And this doesnt have to be a bad thing. Sometimes we need a push in order to try new things. But i think she enjoys flexing...seeing your hardlimit and then ultimately getting you over it. I'm not saying she doesnt respect hard limits. But i feel she wants to know all about your kinks,fetishes,hardlimits in order to better control you. And im not bashing on this woman...fuck ive known dommes that list they are sadist,into cbt,luv giving anal.. And then...well they dont do it. What's your opinion? I'm thinking she is the type that enjoys using your fears of fetish....either embracing your fantasies or overcoming your hard limits as the ultimate flex of her power.
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What's my opinion...??? There is only one way for you to find out...
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I think it's worth investigating...
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