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Long blog on objectification..id appreciate if you'd give it a read Please wait till its posted before replying. |
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First off nothing deflates a blogger more than putting the time,thought and energy into a blog and then noone reading it..😣 But i also know objectification isnt everyone's cup of tea. I previously promised to talk about this topic...and how to the right mindset it isnt abusive,demeaning or even harmful. But like i said..to the right mindset... you dont stuff a 20lbs turkey into a 5 lb sack.. the sub has to desire this sort of play..s/he has to be the right vessel. So im calling this blog post.. How to treat someone like shit...without treating them like shit. And hopefully explaining why a sub may desire this sort of behavior from a Dominant. Now ofcourse this is from a male slaves pov.. A female's slaves needs,desires,wants, emotional connections are different.. For example she may need/ desire a bond,connection to the Dominant. In my case i dont. Hell if anything i would rather it be kept soley in lifestyle terms...a Dominant and the slave...at least from the start..then grown into maybe A Female Led Relationship after he's been fully trained..lol..later down the road Why? I think it's easier to put a slave in these objectificaion situations where there are less personal feelings .i think it's easier for the Dominant to explore treating a male like a complete slave from the start if emotions are removed. Instead of the reverse..treating him like a bf,hubby and then trying to train him for obectification In that case feelings may be hurt. For example it's easier to grab me from a group of males and..???..whatever. .say.hitch me up to a cart naked and whip me as i pull you down a lane. It's plug and play..you dont have feelings and are just enjoying the power exchange. Which may seem ballseys...but a Dominant is more likely to engage in objectification with a slave than say subhub. And why would a slave desire this? Well for me..and hopefully this doesnt sound like a fanboy or geeking out. But i'm very " anne rice's sleeping beauty". Which is probably the best way to describe it.. I see Dominants as superior...much like kings,queens,princesses.. I believe in a natural heirarchy... Which includes ALL women as superior...to which just like in the novel....yes the ladies in waiting,the general town citizens,cooks...are on a higher social tier. Even female slaves are superior.. And without playing into the whole beta male bullshit...woe is me. Im very comfortable in this status.. im not whimpy or less of a man..im quite masculene..it's natural for me to be viewed in objectifying terms. When naked i do think of myself in more animslistic terms.. So it wouldnt be odd to find myself...pulling a cart or being put to work in the fields or being walked on a chain I just see slave males on the lowest rung of the lifestyle community. I see them as " serfs"..lowest in status..less evolved..even more animalistic in nature. So to me it's not odd for them to be used in the most objectifying/ humilating/ service orientated positions. So it make sence to me that a male slave is just something to play with,use, objectify...make your life better..no matter your station...he is a serf..a " donkey"..a dumbdumb..😄 It isnt someone you have sex with..it isnt someone you date..isnt your hubby... So yeah to some this might seem abusive..or that the slave has " problems...like was he abused as a child". Or maybe his idea of slavery is..just that...to be used Think of ancient rome where the households overflowed with slaves.. Obviously house slave x is gonna have different uses than slave y.. Slave y isnt thinking of fucking the houses' Dominant. He is there to fullfill the Dominant's needs and desires. For example ordering a male to bend over and lick your boots..or fuck anyone's boots at a gathering/ play party May seem abusive?, humilating,embarrassing to some.. Or perhaps this is what he needs and desires to aid his submission. That push. My favorite types of Dommes are the ones that see their male slaves in this fashion. To me this is the lifestyle..instead of jerry and judy breaking out the toys cause the kids are at grandmas for the weekend. So yes i enjoy seeing the slave naked,on all fours kissing her shoes when she enters a room,to waiting on her/ her guest,to doing things that might seem outrageous..like him being used as a human toilet complete with funnel or giving him golden showers..or as used an ash tray.. Or even bring kept in a kennel as a house pet. Objectification isnt for everyone...it isnt something you simply bring out at the first meet and greet.. But it isnt something that should be swept into the dark corners and never talked about unless your a super Dom with 30 plus yrs and tons of yogi badges.. It can be introduced from the start.. And in my opinion it probably is better if it is set from the start.. And then one can contimplate a relationship. But it takes the right vessel to fill
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And honestly with the right slave... None of this is harmful...including her urine.. It's just a different level of control the Dominant takes and expects from the slave. And yeah if we lived in a disease free world..id most likely be the slave being passed around from Dom to Dom. But for now..id be happy with being treated thusly by one..lol
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STOP SPAMING THE RECENT POSTS PAGE!!! “Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”
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I can't see it your way likes... If anything... objectification would come during play time with someone I trust and am in a relationship with... Because I think casual scenario's could fuck with my head in a negative way... Of course that's just my thoughts as a female sub. I would not presume to speak for other female subs... Thanks for the different viewpoint though... You know I always enjoy hearing that from you! ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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Well i just felt like i needed to get this one out there
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