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Why men cheat on their wives...w other men...my thoughts See below |
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Every now and then you'll run across a personal ad from a married guy that.. Wants dudes but wants to keep it on the downlow.. Now one may wonder Why? If he's cheating then why not get a 20 something female co-ed... One then may wonder if hubby is gay...was he always gay? So I thought I would blog on this topic and hope to unravel the mystery.. First off Being interested in a guy doesn't make you gay...?. Huh? Well maybe I ought to explain that sentence.. ALOT of curious and bi guys aren't interested in the guy as a person. To them he is the sum of his bits.. He is a cock,an ass,a mouth...a blowup doll. They have no real feelings for this guy,have no intention of touching, being affectionate,dating,falling in love..running away with the guy Ergo to me..yeah sucking a random dick doesn't make you gay. It just means you enjoy the sensation..the taboo Much like someone with a footfetish enjoys licking shoes. So what is really going on here....you say he's not gay but he is the glory hole champ. I think the wife/ kids/ white Pickett fence offers stablitity..something to come home to.. It's his safe space And the gay lifestyle is stereotyped as orgies...well..lol.. .if not that then a lot more freedom. There is a lot less responsibilites...I have no wife,no kids,more disposable income If I want to party on a Wednesday night I can.. If I want to hookup..It's pretty easy.. And a lot of 40,50,60 yr old men feel sorta trapped in that relationship,get that dad bod etc.. It's fairly easy for them to get on a gay website...get that cheap thrill of a blowjobs by a stranger.. And then go back to the creature comfort of their normal routine.. Maybe some don't see it as " cheating" because it isn't a Woman. But It's akin to the mean bastard CEO that bullies his workers and then simps to some high dollar pro Domme.. It's very jeckel and hyde... It's not fair to the wife or the other guy he is using.. Now my advice to a married guy that wants to be with men.. Don't cheat..be upfront with your wife about this desire...it doesn't make you gay..or even bi. Hell there honestly are ALOT of guy that have this same desire.. Instead of allowing it to label your sexuality and define your marriage. Treat it more like a harmless fetish.. I would never be with a hubby that cheats.. But if the wife knew,was comfortable with this arrangement,hell wanted to watch... Then I'd be more likely to indulge this guy and be a clean source for his desires.. The way I see it...if he's cheating then he is putting his wife and himself at a great risk for disease. But if the wife permits hubby to have a regular safe buddy...then It's kept in house.. Hubby gets to indulge...without the risk.. And to get real..hubby isn't going to leave his wife/ his kids/ his stability... For a dick... So I really think cheating hubby needs to talk to his wife about this interest. Explain that he's not gay...being with a guy to him isn't like being with a Woman.. He doesn't want an emotional connection or a relationship. But a dude offers a hot mouth,a hole,a cock...that taboo that is missing from his life.. And being real...gay guys aren't after your hubby.. To us he is a penis,a hole,5 minutes of fun.. No One is looking to break up your marriage..or omg..replace you. And being real real..queen your probably better at sucking a cock than your man... Treat other guys as a fetish..
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Another thought I wanted to add.. Gay guys do ALOT of various things sexually that your hubby would never ever do.. So educate yourself on what gay men really are and what we enjoy. Being real..gay guys kiss,cuddle,suck nips,ass eat,fist,etc. Not too many gay guys are gonna give that up for a straight married 40,50,60 yr old married dude that is shy...and most likely bad At sucking a cock... And really if wives would allow hubby a little leeway.. I think she'll find... He likes dick....but not the guy attached. I'd advise wives in this situation to allow him to have a lil suck buddy,another married dude,a fwb.. Cause It's a fetish...It's not gay sex... Nothing more pathetic than watching two straight hubbies trying to suck each other off.
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its human nature as aman married for yrs one day i wanted to know how it fealt to be on the recieving end! guess what loved it! was great done it a few times, but prefer woman
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And you've made my point.. It may feel good...but are most willing to gamble on their family/ wife/ money/ safe space.. For a few sucks on a cock.. And surprisingly...some men do it
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you get old, get that dad body, no women want you. Guys are more likely to respond to a pic etc. Younger woman are like swimming up stream, sometimes one just has to admit that fighting the current is difficult.
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No doubt men are more " accepting" as we age.. I just think as we age the less men want that telationship
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