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likesmatures 55M
7123 posts
1/27/2023 4:43 am
Bdsm..this isn't burger king

See below

likesmatures 55M
4852 posts
1/27/2023 4:47 am

 The funny thing is..

A slave can literally bend over backwards to accomidate a Dominant..

Come with no desires,offer to take babysets,want them to be completely comfortable in their role..

And some...

Still aren't happy..

And It's funny

When they realise the real power has always been with the slave...

Who is tired

Because they refuse to be

Dominant..

And the anger..

When they realise the slave

Is

Walking away..


likesmatures 55M
4852 posts
1/27/2023 4:53 am

 Literally happened to me 3 times...

Well the 3rd Dommes wasn't crazy pissed...but from her email I could tell she wasn't thrilled.

You had 1 job..

That you get to set the rules,

You get to define yourself

Without pressure

And given that much freedom

And control over a male

I'm guessing

They were just strong women

And not Dominants.

This isn't burger king...you came here for a burger..

I can't help you if you want chicken or don't wish to order.


BDSMbedroomslave 46T
107 posts
1/27/2023 5:12 am

 The amount of men in my instance who haven't a fucking clue how to attract and keep the attention of the submissive they want to fuck.... and lets face it 99% of them want sex.

They come at me, and I presume others, with this, "the world rotates around my ego..." attitude. They all claim to be assertive, but the submissive must do the chasing, must break the silence, and at most times, lead the conversation, and what does the Dominant do..... shuns the submissive for 'Topping from the Bottom'. They're the ones not putting in the effort

Wish these so called Doms would keep to watching their porn, and leave this genre to those who can think and breathe at the same time. They're in many circumstances worse than the scam artists.


likesmatures 55M
4852 posts
1/27/2023 5:49 am

 Completely agree..but im not here to bash men.
Men want sex
Women want a relationship

Both use the lifestyle to achieve these desires.

Im just saying...if you list yourself as Dominant
Put on your big boy/ girl pants and act like one..

The sub shouldnt be driving the bus


boh99 68M
3154 posts
1/27/2023 8:16 am

 managing expectations is always a nuanced thing in relationships



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